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will you guys, like, get married one day ?
So, a little while ago I had this discussion with my brother, as we're both working adults now. There are this social stigma and peer pressure around us (unlike when we're both still young ) that the normal thing to do is to get married. If not, you're weird, or something is wrong with you. But honestly ? seriously? will you ?
I told my mom "I won't get married" and she got mad at me, telling me that creating your own family is the greatest part of your life. In which I think it's not. I'm almost 23 but in my entire life, I only enjoy dating once. During my last relationship, I realized a life being single, being alone, you can do whatever you want. So, I guess that "one...... 2 reply
Me and hubby got married early last year after dating for 7.5 years( we were 25 when married)and from about our 4th anniversary (21-22) onwards every family event we attended would always get the oh arent u guys gonna get engaged yet blah blah blah so there's definitely that expectation and pressure even today which is definitely an annoyance. Even...... reply
Well in my case I think I'm aromatic or Asexual. I've never had interest in marriage or getting a significant other.
Honestly I have no clue still.
But I'll just see what happens in life and go with my own flow.
But I'm single and happy.
Though I would like to adopt a kid on day. 1 reply
I've been married for 2 years now (since I was 22) with the person I've known for 8 years. We're both pansexual with the inclination of bisexuality and I'm so glad that we could find each other; we're like jigsaws with weird curvy edges that fit perfectly. Our married life isn't ordinary 'cause we're bisexual but we're happy to fulfill each other. ...... 1 reply
Ah, I get the pressure and stigma. It sucks.
Do we really have to follow this "manual" of life? I don't think so.
To each his own.
People my age are already married and even have kids but I'm not really excited with the thought. I couldn't even see myself being married to my longtime (ex) boyfriend despite being in a hard-to-come-by faithful relat...... reply
No. I am 43, and while I used to date and even have a 19-yr-old son (out of wedlock), I do not really date anymore. I have only ever met one man that I TRULY wanted to spend the rest of my life with. He did not love me back (we are still friends, but he married someone else). After that, I tried dating a few times, but I just don't feel anything ev...... 1 reply
