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found family / family of choice in BL

The "Found Family" or “Family of Choice” trope refers to a device in literature and media where a group of characters find themselves united in a family bond based on shared experiences, mutual understanding, and interpersonal connection (from nypl.org)

This is one of my favorite tropes ever to read. As usual, I'll try my best to include reviews and content warning.
All(63) / manga(63)

Shimanami Tasogare

 9.8(832 voted)
Complete
Author(s): kamatani yuhki,Kamatani Yuuki
Genre(s): Drama / Seinen / Romance / Seinen / Slice Of Life

☆ 5/5

[PG, drama, slice of life, found family]

TW: suicidal thoughts, homophobia, internal homophobia, transphobia, queerphobia

+ friendship/bromance
+ good representation of LGBT+ characters
+ realistic
+ great writing and beautiful art
- a stereotypical depiction of an asexual character

Best LGBT+ manga i've found so far. Harsh but hopeful, this manga is exactly what i wish i'd read growing up.

26 01,2023

Hinadori wa Shiokaze ni Madoromu

 9.5(252 voted)
Complete
Author(s): MINADUKI Yuu
Genre(s): Romance / Yaoi

4.5/5

[18+, drama, found family, hurt/comfort, slice of life, kids]

TW: emotionally abusive family, promiscuous behavior

+ strangers to lovers
+ sweet and healing

About a seemingly charming man and a gloomy boy, who both had lost the most important figures in their lives, and how they managed to find refuge and family in one person.

26 01,2023

Senya Ichiya - Shitone no Himegoto

 9.1(336 voted)
Complete
Author(s): okadaya tetuzoh
Genre(s): Drama / Mature / Yaoi

4.5/5

[18+, drama, hurt/comfort, romance, psychological]

TW: internal homophobia, trauma, self-destructive behavior, promiscuous behavior, fwb

+ manly couple
+ good depiction of the aftermath of a traumatic incident
+ good writing

This is a tender and touching manga about healing and moving on. The MC, Shouta, is actually the best boy ever graced BL world. Will hurt and heal your heart so good.

26 01,2023

Nichijou Climax

 9.1(824 voted)
Complete
Author(s): LONDON Pariko
Genre(s): Yaoi

4.5/5

[18+, drama, romance]

TW: toxic masculinity

+ established relationship
+ domestic
+ good married couple dynamics
- problematic remarks (MC implies that a bottom has less standing than a top)

I love this couple! Their dynamic is fun and touching to read. You can tell that they've been together for a long time. They're not perfect of course, but they match each other and it makes me jealous but happy, too.

26 01,2023

Bokura no Shokutaku

 9.6(243 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Mita Ori
Genre(s): Shounen Ai / Slice Of Life

☆ 5/5

[PG, slice of life, rom-com, found family, kids]

TW: emotionally abusive family

+ strangers to friends to lovers
+ wholesome

The story is revolved around strangers who started eating meals together, and is the most heartwarming BL manga ever. Seriously, it's really good for your soul. All of the characters are well written, their relationship is wonderful to read, the art is pretty...basically this whole manga is just a huge treat for me.

26 01,2023

Hana wa Saku ka

 9.2(643 voted)
Complete
Author(s): HIDAKA Shoko
Genre(s): Drama / Romance / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

☆ 4.5/5

[18+, drama, romance, found family, slice of life]

TW: age gap (19 yo college student and 38 yo working man)

+ strangers to lovers
+ beautiful art and writing

A middle-aged man who's lost his passion for life and a young man who's learning to open his heart to others. Their interaction could be frustrating at times because of their difference in personality and age, but they're still a good fit together. I love these two so much.

26 01,2023

Kimi ni Ageru

 8.6(906 voted)
Complete
Author(s): MAKI Ebishi
Genre(s): Drama / Shounen Ai / Slice Of Life

[PG, drama, slice of life, found family, hurt/comfort]

TW: yakuza, incest and past abusive relationship (not between MCs)

+ strangers to lovers
+ interesting plot and beautiful art

A heartbroken man who is running away from his ex's debt and an ex yakuza who is running away from his past.

26 01,2023

Tenshi no Uta (NISHIDA Higashi)

 7.7(149 voted)
Complete
Author(s): nishida higashi
Genre(s): Adult / Drama / Mature / Psychological / Tragedy / Yaoi

[18+, drama, psychological]

TW: rape (not between MCs), incest, rape attempt between father and son, toxic relationship, suicide attempt, destructive behavior, child abuse, trauma, prostitution, pedophilia

I think every trigger warning existing on this earth could be applied to this manga lmao-- it's that dark and depressing. And yet, there's still charm, humor, warmth , and hope even when it's so bleak sometimes, just like how the lives of these characters were. I love it.

26 01,2023

Country Diary

 9.6(871 voted)
Complete
Author(s): ISINO Aya
Genre(s): Slice Of Life

☆ 4.5/5

[Gen, slice of life, found family]

TW: mention of past workplace harrassment

+ friendship/bromance
+ wholesome

A heartwarming story about an ex-professor who quit his job to become a farmer. The BL is an undertone, this is more about the beauty of the village and the family MC finds among its people. Ngl makes me want to be a farmer too.

26 01,2023

Sorenari ni Shinken nandesu

 9.4(129 voted)
Complete
Author(s): asou kai
Genre(s): Comedy / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

4/5

[18+, found family, romance, slice of life, kids]

+ friends to lovers

A story about learning to lean on others. Wholesome and sweet.

26 01,2023

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