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found family / family of choice in BL

The "Found Family" or “Family of Choice” trope refers to a device in literature and media where a group of characters find themselves united in a family bond based on shared experiences, mutual understanding, and interpersonal connection (from nypl.org)

This is one of my favorite tropes ever to read. As usual, I'll try my best to include reviews and content warning.
All(65) / manga(65)

Koko Wa Yasashii Niwa

 8.8(136 voted)
Complete
Author(s): enzou
Genre(s): Drama / Romance / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

[18+, drama, hurt/comfort, found family]

TW: child abuse, pedophilia, traumatic incident, mental health issue

27 01,2023

Kemono Asobi

 8.9(271 voted)
Complete
Author(s): mochino kome
Genre(s): Smut / Yaoi

[18+, drama, romance, hurt/comfort, found family, smut]

TW: violent sex (consensual), dubcon, violence, toxic family, child neglect, masochism, stalking

+ strangers to lovers

I didn't expect it, seeing how the MCs started off, but this was so freakin tender. They did have a dysfuncyional rs but atst it was wholesome? A heads up though: this manga is a sequel/spin-off. One of the MCs was a total scum in the prequel, so i just pretend that it didn't exist.

27 01,2023

Dark Heaven

 9.5(210 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Juns
Genre(s): Adult / Yaoi / Webtoons / Drama

☆ 5/5

[18+, drama]

TW: internalized homophobia, homophobia, racism, bullying, blackmail

+ manly switch couple
+ realistic depiction of homophobia, racism, and backdoor dealings in entertainment industry
+ great writing
+ good characters, plot and development

This webtoon, man... it can be a bit hard to read, but it will be worth it. Seriously, the amount of emotion that i was feeling while reading this is unreal. It's terrifying, beautiful, hurtful, and hopeful.

27 01,2023

Itsuka Tomodachi Ja Nakunaru To Shite Mo

 9.3(743 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Uka Kasai
Genre(s): School Life / Shounen Ai / Slice Of Life

4.5/5

[PG, school life, found family, slice of life]

+ friends to lovers
+ supportive family
+ wholesome and heartwarming

Shuuhei's family is the champ! I really hope everyone who's deemed "different" by society could get the same amount of support and love these boys have.

27 01,2023

Kimiiro Eden

 8.6(384 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Aomoto Sari
Genre(s): Yaoi / Drama / Romance / Slice Of Life

4.5/5

[18+, romance, slice of life, found family]

TW: age gap, internal homophobia

+ strangers to lovers
+ slowburn
+ family feels
+ LGBT parents
+ tender consensual sex

I liked the natural progression of the MCs' relationship. It's neither rushed nor dragged on, and I think it complements the development of both characters well.

27 01,2023

Hige to Suzu to Shabondama

 9.4(1070 voted)
Complete
Author(s): ymz
Genre(s): Shounen Ai / Romance / Slice Of Life / Comedy

4.5/5

[PG, slice of life, romance, found family]

+ established relationship
+ sweet with no conflict

A story about a couple who have been together for 5 years and counting. Good for a pick-me-up when you're sad.

27 01,2023

Aioi Musubi

 8.2(469 voted)
Complete
Author(s): syaku
Genre(s): Drama / Yaoi / Slice Of Life
27 01,2023

Memory of the Future

 8.6(211 voted)
Complete
Author(s): KUNIEDA Saika
Genre(s): Comedy / Drama / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

☆ 4.5/5

[18+, slice of life, rom-com, found family]

TW: dub-con because of alcohol, heteronormativity

+ co-workers
+ great dialogue & writing
+ communication
- the MC compared his bf to girls few times

A realistic look into a committed relationship with simple plot but amazing writing. The banter between the MCs is so enjoyable to read, and akira is still one of the best characters ever. Please read back to back with the sequel http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kaze_no_yukue/

27 01,2023

The Sound of Your Voice

 9.3(797 voted)
Complete
Author(s): hana (하나)
Genre(s): Romance / Shounen / Shounen Ai / Webtoons

4.5/5

[PG, slice of life, drama, hurt/comfort, psychological]

TW: child abuse, PTSD, depression, suicide attempt, victim blaming, panic attack

+ strangers to friends to lovers
+ accurate depiction of PTSD
+ healing

I'm really glad i didn't drop this. This is a touching (and accurate) story about someone dealing with past trauma, and his relationship with those who support him. The start's a bit slow, but please keep reading! I promise you it's worth it.

27 01,2023

Kitto, Shiawase na Ketsumatsu

 8.2(189 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Asou mitsuaki
Genre(s): Yaoi / Romance

[18+, drama, found family, hurt/comfort]

TW: depression, rape attempt, sexual assault, age gap, past toxic relationships

27 01,2023

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