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found family / family of choice in BL

The "Found Family" or “Family of Choice” trope refers to a device in literature and media where a group of characters find themselves united in a family bond based on shared experiences, mutual understanding, and interpersonal connection (from nypl.org)

This is one of my favorite tropes ever to read. As usual, I'll try my best to include reviews and content warning.
All(65) / manga(65)

Yonin no Nibiiro

 8.2(1093 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Akabeko,akabeko
Genre(s): Drama / Yaoi / Smut


[18+, drama, action]

TW: rape between MCs, toxic relationship, scum MCs, incest main couple (half-brothers), yakuza, violence, torture, child neglect and abuse, mother complex, homophobia

THIS IS A MANGA FULL OF FUCKED UP PEOPLE DOING FUCKED UP THINGS!

Why i still like it:
- rape wasn't romanticized
- abusive behavior was recognized as such
- author didn't change the course of the relationship to a fluffy one like many did, but instead leaving it as toxic and problematic as it should be

27 01,2023

Yuki to Matsu

 9.2(364 voted)
Complete
Author(s): TAKAHASHI Hidebu
Genre(s): Drama / Historical / Martial Arts / Psychological / Romance / Yaoi

☆ 5/5

[18+, slice of life, found family]

TW: violence, yakuza, prostitution, period-typical sexism, sexual favors

+ strangers to lovers
+ growing old together
+ domestic
+ agender MC & transgender representation
+ pretty art and good writing

I've been postponing reading this for so long because I thought it wouldn't be my cup of tea but...how wrong was I. This is a beautifully written story about two lost people who found home in each other with so many favorite quotes and moments.

27 01,2023

Loved Circus

 8.3(509 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Asada Nemui
Genre(s): Comedy / Drama / Romance / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

[18+, drama, found family, psychological]

TW: prostitution, child prostitution and abuse, pedophilia, dubcon, blackmail, manipulation

27 01,2023

Take to Kota to Aoto

 9.0(1095 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Akabeko
Genre(s): Drama / Romance / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

[18+, smut, romance, kids]

TW: dubcon

Everything except the sex is great. Really moving, i even teared up at some scenes. I wish it focused more on the plot rather than the porn.

27 01,2023

A Lucky Coin

 9.5(562 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Wu Zhe, rui shou meng
Genre(s): Shounen Ai / Drama / Slice Of Life / Romance / Webtoons

☆ 4.5/5

[PG, slice of life, drama, coming of age, found family]

TW: suicide attempt, depression, underage (17x20), abusive family, violence, bullying, homophobia, sexual harassment (not between MCs), murder

+ strangers to friends to lovers
+ growing up tgt
+ affectionate couple
+ reversible couple

Another adaptation of a great slice-of-life / coming-of-age novel by WuZhe! The pacing of the manhua can be a bit disorienting but overall the story is great. I want to keep reading it forever.

27 01,2023

Dousei Yankee Akamatsu Seven

 9.3(661 voted)
Complete
Author(s): shoowa,okujima hiromasa
Genre(s): Action / Comedy / Romance / Slice Of Life / Yaoi

[18+, slice of life, found family]

TW: pedophilia, child prostitution, child abuse, mafia, crime, dubcon, noncon drugging, rape attempt, threat of rape, homophobia, murder, insect

I'm in love with this manga since chapter 1, what with the art style and unique premise. It's funny and entertaining as hell, but beneath everything lurks something sinister (and nauseating). I'm super happy that everything ends up okay considering the real fucked up things that went on in the background.

27 01,2023

Shouwaru Neko mo Koi o Suru

 8.3(168 voted)
Ongoing
Author(s): Kinoshita keiko
Genre(s): Yaoi

[PG, rom-com, found family, kids]

I liked it a lot! I wish the author could develop the relationship more because it did feel lacking, but it was still a decent read. Some people said that MC is annoying, which i don't understand because i think he's a really adorable character. He had this grandeur ideal for his life, and he worked really hard for it, but in the end he found that he loved the quiet and simple happiness he had with his newfound family.

27 01,2023

Torokeru Tamago to Bed no Naka de

 9.4(821 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Mibu Yoshikazu
Genre(s): Yaoi / Slice Of Life / Drama / Romance / Smut

4.5/5

[18+, slice of life, romance]

TW: homophobia

I always love stories with established couple because most of the time they focus less on the sexual/fetish-y aspect of being gay and more on the important aspects of gay relationship like dealing with homophobia, coming out to the family and the consequences, struggling to be each other's next of kin legally, etc. This manga does have a fairy tale-ish happy ending, but overall it's a good, comforting read for a closeted gay man like me.

27 01,2023

Perfect Propose

 9.1(238 voted)
Complete
Author(s): Tsurukame mayo
Genre(s): Yaoi / Drama / Romance

[18+, slice of life, hurt/comfort]

TW: toxic workplace, child neglect, dubcon, age gap

The confession scene is my favorite in a while. And man, hirokuni's fear of leaving his toxic workplace because it was his only source of self-assurance is too close to home. Not really a big fan of the dynamic of the couple but everything else made up for it. A good hurt/comfort story.

27 01,2023

Sankaku Mado no Sotogawa wa Yoru

 9.4(314 voted)
Complete
Author(s): YAMASHITA Tomoko
Genre(s): Comedy / Drama / Horror / Mystery / Shounen Ai / Slice Of Life / Supernatural

☆ 5/5

[PG, supernatural, slice of life, drama]

TW: non-sexual non-con, manipulation, child abuse, cult, ghost, murder

+ bromance
+ AMAZING writing and characters
+ interesting plot and good world building

"Not a horror movie, but a profound study of human relationship". That's how one of the MCs described the movie "exorcist", and that's also how i'd describe this manga. The more you read the story, the more you'd realize there's nothing like it in the BL manga scene. It's just Super Good.

27 01,2023

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