I mean idfk I thought rape is when you force someone into having sex with you but I mean what happens when the person you are raping is like "bro t f u doing stop oh it's kinda good but also bro t f??" and then you're also like "uuuh idk gay men do bad shit lol idk" and you're both like "ok let's just keep on buttfucking I guess" and then i'm sitting behind the screen watching two drawings have a mid life crisis
I mean wasn't even sexy
ON ONE HAND:
maybe this shit is projection but I hate it when the victim blames themselves, even if the "blame" here is complicated. Rape's not necessary to the plot, story is just not dark enough for the seme to get into yandere mode. Also can u picture a guy friend that youve repeatedly told "NO" to over the years come up an rape you because he doesnt believe you?? And then the rest of the story is fluff! "OTL
ON THE OTHER HAND:
this made my ovaries happy
I am soooooooo done you guys what does "I didn't resist because I didn't mind" even mean wtf man do these ppl know nothing about how assaulting ppl works I cant TT______TT
apart from that it's one of those angsty period pieces (although in this universe we pretend homosexuals did not get persecuted lol) and eeeh ok I cried buckets there I said it >_>
what's sad about this is that this was quite a good story, but then the beginning is just sooo....
calm down maaan why all that angst??? HOW did you go from barely acquainted to rape galore in 2 minutes chill your balls daaamn
Somehow I never cared for this classic thus I completely forgot how super rapey it is *facepalm*
But yee super rapey like holy crap but somehow really hot also?!?!?!
If I could have a boner I'd call it confused lol
Seme is a real sou-seme-sama and the uke is such an oujo it truly is a very classic dynamic (rape included -___- )
kind of shocked/surprised that the main couple started rapey when the hot masculine uke with that six pack and slant eyes *drools* -sorry what? oh right- got piss drunk to the point of not knowing who he was having sex with and the pretty boop boop seme with ALL DEM ISSUES took full advantage of it after decades of stalking!!!
Like, in my distorted memory apart from the *SPOILERS* weird (but hot old man from the sequel) does the sex by coersion thing the manga was 100% cute n wholesome but NOPE
Oke I won't lie first of all I love fujoking and second of all I loved the mess the start of this was but I found the first sex scene too triggering for me so I stopped
(boooo)
Maybe my horniness will prevail my PTSD one day and read it because apparently hot things in yaoi are somehow also rapey-WHY IS THIS TWISTED WORLD SO CRUELAGHSDFJHGTHYJTGRSGTRFHEDEVRC
chapter 2: another rapey ghost (but it has a sad backstory ;_; )
chapter 5 has some romanticized abusive shit going on so I'm warning you about that!!! (all chapters are pretty weird and everyone's dick looks dried up or just sad)
uuuum.... I have no words???? -___-'''
Just uuuh read it if you want to but uuuh -____-'''
excuse me I have to go collect my braincells
ngl I kind'a loved this it was pretty cute and the smut was great but I'm A TERRIBLE ANNOYING PERSON who is here to tell you that a. fucking super drunk ppl like that is a no-no and b. forcing them to participate in your kink is the opposite of safe and ethical kink practices, and is NOT WHAT THE COOL KIDS ARE DOING!!!!
Definitely a fun read tho ~
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i think ur so real for this list
lol I'll take that as the highest of compliments
Thank you for doing the saint work this list is just exactly what i needed
Is this an anti or pro r*pe list? If it is an anti list. I’ll follow because I feel the exact same. It’s so annoying watching SA get romanticized over and over. As a trauma victim it makes it so difficult to enjoy stories without getting upset or flashbacks etc. when there’s no warning especially. Makes me feel all sick
both. I am not trying to shame anyone's preferences, as I wrote in the description for part 1, some people are into most of these titles and some need to avoid them like the plague, I think both are valid. Personally, many titles on the list I really like and many I find very inadequately written and retraumatizing. I'm a survivor myself so I know how delicate of a line it is to walk when reading stuff like this.
Tysm!!
wait I just read the sentence again and I'd just like to state that hopefully there is no such thing as a "pro-rape" list anywhere ever and when I said both I meant that I do not shame these manga for existing, but neither do I advocate for them by default.
Manga that get rapey or have weirdly dubious consent are not the same as someone advocating actual real life rape, just like how violent gangster films do not advocate for organized crime violence. We are all social bi-products and we tend to fantasize or imagine scenarios that irl would be unhealthy or traumatic. If I criticize the manga in this list it's not because I'd think they are "pro-rape" (and I'd like to think that would be an absurd stance to have) it's because the story and (dubious) smut is not well executed, either from a moral or a skill standpoint.
Think of manga and smutty novels that have non consensual scenarios as people roleplaying a kinky scene but without the extra layer of them sitting down and discussing safewords, likes and boundaries, because there are no real people involved who could be hurt (well, except the readers if the manga is bad lol)
Did I miss something in Oni to Tengoku? I thought the student/minor & the dude confirmed nothing happened between them??
(genuinely asking, I read sometimes all night when I can't sleep & its very likely I miss stuff/skim by/ or just straight up forget)
veeeery vaguely remember that it was indeed confirmed that they did get involved sexually just that it wasn't "a big deal" because it wasn't serious lol. But it's been a while since I read it so am not a 100% sure and it's not enough of a good time to go back and confirm lol ngl
It's been so long since I've read it. I had thought he was basically teaching sex ed for the queer kid haha. I might go back and read (heavy on the MIGHT). There was hella problematic shit like you mentioned, I just didn't remember him getting with the minor. Big Yikes if so on my part. But thanks for the in-depth (and at times funny) list needless to say! :3
*shrug* it is what it is! That story was weird because it was kinda well told writing skill wise, but as a story it was a bizarre clusterfuck so the skill went down the drain. Pls do let me know if u do and I need to make corrections!
And ty! ^^
i like manipulatize toxic shit.. AND YOU GAVE MANIPULATIVE TOXIC SHIT< THANK YOU GURL
Your comments are so funny lmaooo this is the list I've been looking for
LMFAO love these descriptions !!
anyone else reading Jinx hearing the psycho doctor telling a clearly poor looking kid that his grandmas cancer treatment would cost 10k per month be like sorry grandma u've lived a long life guess you'll die ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
why is this guy putting his magical mutthole on the front lines for his grandma she looks 95 bruh also is he straight I don't get it, also why am I still reading Jinx am I just into hate reading things in shock now????
I’m reading Jinx rn as well lol
I was shocked because I didn’t expect what happened from the author of bj Alex
i feel like the signs were there all along we were just willfully ignoring them ╥﹏╥
I miss Sunoo ><
Is “put a smile on” on here it should be
whenever people recommend stuff for this list I need to mentally prepare myself before reading it lol
ugh I read it... and uuuh those are 20 minutes I'll never take back >_>
I love this list so much even though I hate rape scenes in yaoi just because of your comments goddamn
wooohooohooo that's a big compliment good to hear!