Disgusting ex

Preach sister !
I know it's mean but I hope his new relationship breaks apart and the uke is happy with someone else at the end <3

When he slapped the uke i lost ant empathy for him .. fuck that ex i hope he suffer in pain

You act like he knew his missing ex was going to come back in five years. Until you're in that situation yourself you shouldn't judge him so harshly. His boyfriend was in a war zone taking photographs and he didn't know if he was dead or alive because more often or not they categorize dead people as missing because they couldn't find the body but that's just to give family a slight inkling of hope. Can you imagine the shit he was going through? I surprised he made it to three years that shit could literally kill a person. I don't think either of them is at fault. They probably just weren't meant to be because of different aspirations and priorities .

ur right but he has NO excuse to be a fucking asshole to yoon. after going thru so much shit and still clinging onto a relationship that isn’t mutual anymore, he could have handled it WAYYY better. he’s taking his anger out on yoon when it isnt even his fault. he should’ve just str8 up told yoon we are over and not drag their shit on

I guess? How could he have handled it better? What should he have done? It's easy to call him asshole just because you feel sorry for yoon but I don't think he was. Yoon was messaging him constantly trying to meet up even though he clearly stated from the first meeting that he's in another relationship and will not be leaving that person which is reasonable. He can't just disrespect his current relationship like that. Five years is a lot. You can't just go back to the way things are just like that. Not after all those wounds . I also get why he delayed "properly " ending the relationship even though I don't understand why he had to say that when everything was pretty clear from the get go. He still has residual feelings for yoon because years of friendship and dating isn't easy to let go of hence why he was crying when they officially broke up. Also yoon trying to reduce them to sex buddies after taejun explicitly stated how much his boyfriend was there for him , how his disappearance tore him apart and how hard it is for him to let him go because he doesn't want to interfer with his career etc WAS DISRESPECTFUL AND HURTFUL. I would have hit him too.

but you can't deny that his a piece of sh*t

Lol he isn't. The person that seems to be a piece of shit at the moment is Yoon's current interest ; the Director. " I don't like things discarded by other people , you might bring your based situation with it". Like is everyone reading the same manga?? Lmao.

Wow! The man was in a coma for 5 years, hitting him in the face would obviously cause more trauma to his already injured brain, not to mention that he ended up against a wall and god knows if his head bounced off that on impact. I don't know you personally, but stating that you would willing hit someone you claim to "love" who is still recovering from a traumatic brain injury...Well, all I can say is, I have some serious concerns about your moral compass, as I do the Ex in this story. He has not once ever shown the uke respect, compassion or even sympathy since the uke returned. We get to see the Ex's internal monologs, where he claims to still care about the uke, has thoughts of concern and memories of his emotional turmoil when the uke was presumed dead. The uke on the other hand, isn't privy to any of that information. To him, he went to sleep one day in happy relationship with his best friend and woke up to a terrible nightmare where his boyfriend suddenly is in a relationship with someone else and is acting like a completely different person. Cold and uncaring at every turn. All he wants is things to go back the way they were to achieve some sort of stability. His ex had 5 years to cope with the loss and move on, to Yoon, it was yesterday. "What should he have done?" Well first he should have respected Yoon's repeated requests to not have the conversation right then and there, as he stated multiple times it was not the best time for the uke to have that conversation but the ex just selfishly just kept going without regard to the ukes mental or physical state. He could've just said "I know you're not feeling well and we will continue this conversation at a later date but please calm down with the calling and texting all the time, it's getting a bit much", and left it at that. The ex has had many chances to go about things in a better way but blew all of them. So, yes, in this instance, the ex is an asshole.

You're literally thinking about this from a one-sided perspective because you side with Yoon. Literally , the only fault y'all find with Taejun is that he hurt Yoon's feelings while ignoring Taejun's feelings. There's nothing wrong with my moral compass . I'm just capable of seeing things from different perspectives rather than just paint things black and white. He was right to end things then and there because it would drag on. There's never a right time because life doesn't work like that. I'll agree with you that he shouldn't have hit him though. I'll die on my hill of he's not an asshole. They're just two people with tragic ass circumstances.

no he is he wouldn't be if he just broke it off but he regreted it

You are also literally thinking about this from a one-sided perspective because you side with the ex. My issue is not that he hurt Yoon's feelings, my issue is he with his behavior and mainly the fact that he hit an already injured person in a place that could cause significant impact to his recovery. Everything in your comments has been mainly on the side of the ex, so I don't really see how you're not also seeing it as black and white. I had plenty of sympathy for the ex at the beginning and am not one of those who find fault in him getting another boyfriend after thinking his lover was dead following 3 years of searching. I probably would've done the same. While his actions, in my opinion, have not been those typical of someone in a 30 year friendship/love relationship, no one is the same or reacts the same in a given situation. So his actions could be taken with a grain of salt. But that changed when he hit the uke. To me that was a turning point and yes, now, I do only look at things from just the ukes perspective because in my opinion the ex doesn't deserve consideration. He is clearly harboring anger and hostility towards the uke, whether it is on a conscious or subconscious level. To slap someone in the face that is recovering from a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) is just...I can't. Having worked in a Neurological research clinic, its just not ok, on any level, no matter how angry he was at Yoon's proposition. I probably wouldn't have even replied to your comment originally, had you not added the "I would hit him too" as the last sentence. The effects repeated physical trauma has on the brain is not a joke, it is very serious and could lead to permanent impairment. Even the ex said he looked like he should've been taken to the hospital. Not cool man, not cool at all.

i agree

literally FUCK you. i’m in awe. how DARE u, resorting to violence just because ur ex doesn’t get the memo. it takes COMMUNICATION. the dude has been IN A GODDAMN COMA FOR FIVE YEARS, NOT TALKING TO ANYONE. how is he just supposed to get up and just accept what happens when this shit was literally THROWN at him? the ex should’ve handled it better 10000%. he needs to be firm, but not harsh and abusive. they used to be extremely close and yoon was still attached to him. suddenly wanting to rip that attachment won’t work since it’s such a rapid change. they need better communication skills, ESPECIALLY the ex cuz he literally doesn’t understand how hard it is for yoon, someones who’s STUCK IN THE PAST, to let go of something you’ve known ur whole life.

i’m extremely sorry if this person triggered you. are u ok? it’s insane.

But after mc returns the ex literally acts like he never loved him like he could at least be civil with him.

Also the ex's bf doesn't appea to be as much a saint as the ex claims him to be.He was probably in love with him for a long time and when e came to know that the mc died he decided to take that chance.if he really wanted to help comfort and heal the ex he would have given the ex and yoon some time to sort things out.
And it is a complete bitch move to bring your new liver the moment your old lover is out of coma.That is not the time to sort YOUR MOST IMPORTANT MATTER out with him it is time to let him get better a little.
The ex is clearly not over his past bf an is only with the new bf cause he feels like he is obliged to do that after all that he had done for him.It is nyc of ex but it is also cruel cause at the end of the day he doesn't love him so it's just gonna hurt.

The ex started hating the uke in order to cope with his death but to behave like this with someone who woke up from coma is wrong.
No one,not even a reporter in a war zone went there with an intend to die.You can't blame them for almost dying.There are a lot o people who risk there life on a daily basis for their passion and job it doesn't mean they love less than anyone else.
You cannot deny that he was very selfish,Not a single action of his was in consideration to the uke.His thoghts are over shadowed by how sad he was and how he is indebted to his new bf for being beside him,his indecisiveness would cause both his bf and mc harm.