She disrupted their life but she didn't ruin it. All she did was just give them a experience in life. When time passes that is all it will be just a experience. In Hyunwoo's case Hyesol is just another abusive person that is out of his life just like his parents. Hyunwoo sees it as a loss right now but it wasn't. Ultimately though whether Hyunwoo realizes this and how he moves on depends on the writer.

What a total dumbass bitch (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ damn she ruined their life and for whaaaaat?