here you go love! ^^
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_physical_education/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_ga_ochitara/
Idk if this will suit your taste but its worth a try
Hmm you mean like toping from the bottom?
Try the henai series
#58-60
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/603799/?filter=&page=6
no there's sub-top & dom-bottom. so you can still have a "dom personality" and be the one domming,, while getting fucked. a good example of this is in ~~~ http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/make_a_pet_out_of_a_cactus/
Therapy Game - http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/therapy_game/
Blue Sky Complex - http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/blue_sky_complex/
You could also try the "Seme like Uke" tag - http://www.mangago.me/tag/seme%20like%20uke/

can someone recommend me a yaoi fic where the sub has a dom personality or smn?? i get bored whenever the sub is a softie huhu idk why. thank you in advance!