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Question for Aces on the spectrum

ClicheMilk May 17, 2021 3:28 pm

Does being Ace mean you aren't comfortable reading porn? Since the ace girl does read BL smut, I thought she would umcomfy??( ̄∇ ̄")

Responses
    Muh May 19, 2021 10:55 am

    No ace just don't want romantic relationship but porn is just fine

    NVismyname May 19, 2021 7:03 pm

    Ace is kinda also an umbrella term, so there's a variety of ace ppl out there. The one that Muh is talking about is aromantic I think. There's also asexual, where they might be ok with a romantic relationship but not ok with a sexual relationship.
    So to answer ur question, just like with everything else, it depends on the person. There's some ace ppl who aren't comfortable with sexual activities, and there are some who are. I personally don't mind it.

    Dyke Recruiter May 19, 2021 8:14 pm

    person above got it right^ im still figuring stuff out but i def feel more comfortable in relationships that don’t involve sex so im leaning towards ace, and tbh i do enjoy reading raunchy & explicit stuff lol. im also cool talking about sex and making jokes like that but its a personal thing. ive met ace ppl that do get uncomfy and ill have to tone the jokes down to be respectful

    YaoiHands May 20, 2021 12:22 am

    I’m asexual and I’m totally fine with porn, but I prefer animated pornography such as yaoi and even hentai. It’s definitely less realistic Amanda especially with yaoi, I can disassociate myself from the sexual acts. Not only is real porn just embarrassing to look at, it’s just...gross to me. I’ve had sex before, and I did enjoy it, but finding another person sexually attractive is the issue for me. After finding out about asexuality, it’s like a huge relief from my shoulders that I’m not ‘a late bloomer’ or haven’t met the right one (I never even tried or was interested, but I did have a boyfriend for about 3 years). Sexuality is fluid, so it’s not something that can be concretar since feelings can change. But I will say that I am beyond happy about this representation.

    YaoiHands May 20, 2021 12:23 am

    I’m asexual and I’m totally fine with porn, but I prefer animated pornography such as yaoi and even hentai. It’s definitely less realistic and, especially with yaoi, I can disassociate myself from the sexual acts. Not only is real porn just embarrassing to look at, it’s just...gross to me. I’ve had sex before, and I did enjoy it, but finding another person sexually attractive is the issue for me. After finding out about asexuality, it’s like a huge relief from my shoulders that I’m not ‘a late bloomer’ or haven’t met the right one (I never even tried or was interested, but I did have a boyfriend for about 3 years). Sexuality is fluid, so it’s not something that can be concretar since feelings can change. But I will say that I am beyond happy about this representation.

    ClicheMilk May 21, 2021 12:30 am

    Wow thank you lovely peoples! I'm learning so much thx to you guys

    No one asked September 1, 2023 2:50 am
    I’m asexual and I’m totally fine with porn, but I prefer animated pornography such as yaoi and even hentai. It’s definitely less realistic and, especially with yaoi, I can disassociate myself from the sex... YaoiHands

    this kinda late but that's sweet! finding people who feels the same way really does make me feel like im not alone