If u talking about reverse harem with harsh male lead i have few.. Except that they not really the 'first choice' since it's isekai, y'know what i mean?
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/death_is_the_only_ending_for_the_villainess/
The female lead enters some 'dating sim' game(idk) and can see the favorability meters of each male lead
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/wish_to_say_farewell/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/beware_of_the_villainess/
This one is my favourite,all the "male lead" is shitty except for FL's love interest
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/it_s_no_use_hanging_on/
She got betrayed and killed by her love one so she return to the past and decide to not being the pushover anymore(iluvher)
That's all for now, i think ヾ(¯∇ ̄๑)

any stories like kill the villaness? where a male lead is kinda harsh and the mc is strong?