i am aware that this is a dumb question so pls dont get mad. so when (and why) are they i...

well happy wedding (▰˘◡˘▰) but what i want to say when its about dating and having a lover girls always are more serouis and if its true or not this is my opinion however i know that they are a very good and honest guys as i know that they are a very bad and cruel girls and this is just my opinion sis/bro

I think you may be confusing "honest" with "exclusive." While some men are both romantic and monogamous, if we look at general trends and recognize the limitations of that, we are probably more likely to find more men who are interested in more than one person at a given time, and more likely to find more women who are at least serial monogamist (into one partner at a time). Like I said, there are exceptions. But there is a reason for the old joke, "What do two lesbians do on the second date?" "Move in together." That doesn't mean that a person can't be passionately romantic about one or more people and still have sex with many others. I know a many who can sleep with several partners and write poetry about each.

I think there is love and there is lust. We as humans subject to both emotions.Both can be equally as strong produce romantic feelings, to me love is very diff. It's the feeling of wanting to protect and feel protected by that person and only that person. It's only that skin and that smell that can give comfort . That is love to me. Of course each person defines it the way they chose. I know people who have strayed and those who have not. Those that did seemed to be in lust at the time,Other factors were involved.

When you use absolutes like "always," you are stereotyping an entire gender. You say you are fifteen. You are very young, whether you like to hear that or not. I'm worried that you will go into relationships (romantic or platonic) with such biased ideas about gender. It is so unfair and you would not like it if similar generalities were made about your gender. I hope you will keep an open mind about the nature and ability to love and care for all genders.

well okay but there is a different between loving someone and writing a poetry about him/her and dating more people and have sex with them and after write a poetry about them because one u write something for the person whom u really love u will mean every single word u will say it and u will say the romantic stuff with all your heart even the poetry u will write it .. it will have a true feelings but such a talk that u dont mean it and such a poetry even if its the best one of the world will be always such a lie with some fake feelings this is why there is a different between a love poerty and between a playboy/playgirl poetry (⊙…⊙ )

love is when u feel that u born for that person and that person feel the same this is why gender doesn*t matter (￣ε(#￣)Σ like your opinion

well my lady thanks but u dont need to worry however if im 15 or even 8 years i know what i say will i didn*t whrite that all the guys/males are bad i only think that women of course not all are more loyatly and honestly and u as a teenager my lady how many boyfriends cheated on u and how much you cried and cursed them ? not because im 15 that means im wrong okay （￣へ￣）u can even ask some women in your country and they will say the same that*s only my opinion besides i know that there is such a good romantic guys are waiting outside and however i might be wrong too im still 15 and i might change my mind in the futur so thanks for the advice my lady (●'◡'●)ﾉ

but lady u are older then me right so give me a proof wish can make me wrong (≧∀≦)
and then i will say sorry im wrong

Well, if we are talking about whether women ar more "romantic" than men, I think poetry counts. As for love...well love is something else too. But it is possible for some people to love more than one person at the same time. I would always argue that one person has to be your "most important" because how can be otherwise? But I have heard people say it's like loving your children--you love them all.

So, if we had a Venn diagram, we would need separate circles for "love", "romance", "monogamy", and "honesty". There would need to be a way to have each overlap with all the others in the very middle and with each the other circles in places and combinations, but all need a space where they do not overlap. Wow, that's hard to visualize. Maybe let's just say that sometimes these things go together, and sometimes not so much.

Ah come on. Some women can be just as much unfaithful as some men. They're just better at hiding it. Women want to think they don't cheat, and men want to think women don't cheat, so of course if a woman was to do so it would be easier to hide it. People don't want to question a woman's fidelity, some would call the thought of it ridiculous. And of course, in the few instances in which people were to know about it, as a woman it's socially easier to get away with it.

I smeel a whole lot of victimization. Putting the fault on a single gender is silly. Personally I've never known someone that actually cheated or been cheated on - I probably just don't hang out with those types of people - but human nature is what it is. Genders barely have anything to do with it, get out with those stereotypes.

I also don't buy in men being more likely to be interested into more than one person at a time. I personally get it every once in a while (some light butterflies), though in no world would I ever act on it as it'd never compare with my current relationship which used to be a best friend and I genuinely love him so godamn much. It's just a matter of being around people that are your type. How could you not feel anything toward someone your type and being nice with you (though not necessarily pure love)? Again, women are just more secretive about it... Personally I just don't feel the need to scream about it even though it's harmless, but of course society dictates that since I'm a woman that could never happen huh...

Getting where I'm coming from? People have preconceived ideas of you depending on your gender, just because of some stereotypes being spread since forever.

I've met men who think women don't masturbate and thought it'd be laughable if they did so. Gee. So yeah, not one would think that I do, nor do I want to tell people about it, which perpetuates the idea that no woman do. Ahaha...

I know of quite a few relationships (even in my own family) where cheating happened - and most cheaters (not all) were the men. My dad was one of these nasties, but my mom forgave. My good friend - who had just gotten married 3 months previous had a cheating husband ... although my cousins wife was cheating on him, getting pregnant as well ... so cheating can certainly go both ways.

Just to be sure, know was the key word. My point was about being better at hiding it. So really I'm not sure if we can still say the vast majority were men necessarily. From researches it's 25% of men and 15% of women that have sex with someone else while married, that seems about alright even though I suspect people have lied in those to be extra sure they don't get caught even though it's anonymous.

Which is sad, since I already think these numbers are really high enough...

well i loved your opinion but there will be always a different between loving someone and playing a stupid one with someone (〜￣△￣)〜

but even if women cheat too ( and i know that) men cheat more then them and this is will be always the truth (●￣(ｴ)￣●) and u knew it

but women are forgiven more then men and this is another truth : in some countries when a man cheated on his woman nothing happen to him even his wife accepted or not and in the same time if that woman cheated on him he kills her and nothing happen to him too but if we talk about all the world a lot of men made a murders because their wifes cheated on them ( well i know that women made those things too ) but man made it more then them

your dad is so lucky man （￣へ￣）hope he knew his mistake

There are a lot of diff. truths. In my country a man left his wife bec. he cheated. after the divorce, the court ruled he had to pay child support for child that was not his bec. it was conceived while she was married to him. The child was the guy she cheated with. The ex husband is on the hook for 18 years of child support. This is a true story. Men cheat but so do women and both can get away with it. When it comes to human behavior humans are never absolute.

why are we suddenly talking abt cheating, im lost (￣∇￣")

Many years ago, I read some studies on sex and gender role differences in self-reported attitudes towards monogamy and infidelity that suggested there was empirical backing for the idea that males were less likely to be monogamous (or at least strictly sexually monogomus0 but i am too lazy to try to track it down and it may be outdated. I agree that we shouldn't assume gender means that much, but there is some evidence that suggests a statically significant difference between men and women in attitudes towards monogomy. Such differences might be changing since the studies I read were done, but there is at least some evidentiary basis for the idea that the trends exists.

Interestingly, the studies I read suggested lesbians were more likely to want a committed monogamous relationship than straight people, and gay men were less likely to want a sexually monogamous relationship (some even called it "heteronormative" and were opposed to it). Again, this is about statistical trends and there are outliers and exceptions.

Additionally, the studies asked mostly about what people report that they think they want--which may not reflect what people actually do. So, huge grain of salt there. But there is more to it than just a myth--there were at least some trends reported.

That being said, many women enjoy multiple partners (at some time in their lives). I think the issue is whether the people who like multiple partners are honest about it and tell the people they are with, or if they lie. Lying is what sucks (IMO).

still men cheat on their partners more then women