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ZelAn June 26, 2021 7:14 am

No this isn’t cheating! Cheating is an act of betrayal, physical intimacy with another, and dishonesty when you’re in a serious committed romantic relationship. You’re a traitor if not a cheater if you think of someone else or start having feelings for another while in a committed relationship.

I understand that many of you may be the very jealous or insecure/possessive type.

Anyways this isn’t cheating. I’m pretty sure they’re only friends with benefits, the Uke has the right to do whatever he wants. They’re not in a committed relationship.

This is why I can’t be in relationships, I’m too lazy to care and be attentive.

Do I LOVE this Yaoi? No lmao. It’s a pretty common trope, this love triangle. You like what you like.

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    Justme June 26, 2021 12:02 pm

    Its not cheating for sure,but that doesnt mean that the other part may not feel betrayed lol.....This happens in real life too,when you trust someone and everything they do can hurt you,but its not their fault, because they dont have to consider your feelings....It may not be cheating ,but it feels like it,because its like a reality check that you dont matter as much as you think xp

    ZelAn June 26, 2021 1:47 pm
    Its not cheating for sure,but that doesnt mean that the other part may not feel betrayed lol.....This happens in real life too,when you trust someone and everything they do can hurt you,but its not their fault,... Justme

    No that’s called being insecure because some think they aren’t good enough, then become possessive, etc. Humans grew up in such messed up society, insecurity is common and so is jealousy in relationships.

    Also who are you talking about? The person feeling betrayed? “ This happens in real life too,when you trust someone and everything they do can hurt you,but its not their fault, because they dont have to consider your feelings...”

    Cause if so, I agree and disagree.

    That other person can feel betrayed but it’s not anyone’s fault that they feel that way, they know what FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS mean, the person feeling betrayed should know what they got into; no one is in a committed relationship.

    If you continue to feel jealous or betrayed, friends with benefits / casual relationship isn’t the relationship for you. You’d be better off in serious relationships.

    Justme June 26, 2021 8:38 pm
    No that’s called being insecure because some think they aren’t good enough, then become possessive, etc. Humans grew up in such messed up society, insecurity is common and so is jealousy in relationships. A... ZelAn

    ok chill lol,i just meant that even in fwb relationships you can feel betrayed if they sleep with someone else,its human and some people arent perfect like you i guess ( ̄∇ ̄").Maybe you have never felt jealous, but someday you will and you will understand how you cant help it.....
    But you are right i would never sleep with someone i dont like so fwb its not for me,not because im insecure...you can feel insecure or jealous in every relationshp serious or not.
    Also you dont have to repeat what i said....i said its not anyone’s fault.....i was explaining how having those feelings its normal and it not something horrible like you make it.
    The other guy can fuck anyone he wants, i never said he couldnt....

    ZelAn June 26, 2021 11:00 pm
    ok chill lol,i just meant that even in fwb relationships you can feel betrayed if they sleep with someone else,its human and some people arent perfect like you i guess ( ̄∇ ̄").Maybe you have never felt je... Justme

    “ Maybe you have never felt jealous, but someday you will and you will understand how you cant help it.....”

    Just cause I know how to differentiate two relationships and handle them does not mean I can’t get jealous. I do get jealous in serious relationships but never to get serious in casual because no strings attached.

    And alright. I’m just saying yeah you can get jealous but you really shouldn’t be getting jealous in fwb relationship if you have romantic feelings but small envy or jealousy is normal.