yesterday was like the first time i ever had a serious sex talk w my girl friends and like they all seem to be just watching normal porn and not even masturbate like more than once a week. and i think thats what most girls do since my country is a bit conservative and not very openminded about sex (not my friends but) so do you think like liking bdsm, yaoi or just kinky stuff in general is bad or not important? cause like when i talked a bit about bdsm or stuff they all thought i would just like being hit in general lol or didnt even know what it was
I dont think its necessarily bad unless your making others uncomfortable or bringing it to places it shouldn't be brought. But other than that I think it should be fine.
I'm 29 & married. It's a matter of tastes, nothing specially good or bad by itself. It is very important not to bring this up if people are not interested; better change the topic. Lightly mentioning a topic is best to grasp of there's interest before continuing
yesterday was like the first time i ever had a serious sex talk w my girl friends and like they all seem to be just watching normal porn and not even masturbate like more than once a week. and i think thats what most girls do since my country is a bit conservative and not very openminded about sex (not my friends but) so do you think like liking bdsm, yaoi or just kinky stuff in general is bad or not important? cause like when i talked a bit about bdsm or stuff they all thought i would just like being hit in general lol or didnt even know what it was