Those aren't "proper people" that's someone who completely disregards people. Shallow people. There's a time when it's better to hold your tongue. You aren't a dictator of someone's life....how would you "properly" determine what's best anyway?
It's not slut shamming. It's just some people can't identify with promiscuous people and they simply don't like storis with this kind of characters. And that is perfectly fine. Same as some people don't like stories with virgin, innocent Mc's. What i don't get is this whole attitude that you can't comment if you don't like a particular character. That is censoring people's freedom of expressing their opinion and basically making them seem as bad people just because something is not up to their taste. That, my friend is worse than this supposed slut shamming that you and other here are talking about.
There's a difference between it not being your taste and explaining how morally wrong it is for people to be promiscuous. The latter is what most disagree with. As if there is ever anything wrong with two consenting people having sex for pleasure. That's slut shaming. People can post judgmental comments about other people's lifestyles if they want but there would be expected opposing comments. It would be no different if ,for example, someone were posting homophobic opinions about characters in the comments.
i don't get why you guys get so worked up about people sleeping around. people do it all the time, both men and women. that's why people go to bars. I don't like the whole slut-shaming thing. if you don't like having a lot of sex then don't do it.