Hmm... maybe sth like this http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kodoku_na_taka_wa_hitokoishikute/
Others that come to my mind are a bit fucked up, so idk if I should recommend them (besides you probably know them already)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yoru_to_asa_no_uta/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sasayaku_no_wa_sono_yubi/
This on but the Seme doesn't get violent he just refuses :
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_no_kao_ni_sasu_kage/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_wa_boku_wo_suki_ni_naru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yoru_to_asa_no_uta/
I've got a list where the Uke is rejected ( but no violence I guess)
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/55380/?filter=&page=2
Yaaaay, thx everyone! :p Dats great!
i'm searching for an other type of manga where the uke confesses his love for the seme at the beginning of the story and the seme does not admit his feelings and he gets violent like "don't touch me / i don't want to see you anymore" and some time later he realises that after all he really is in love after some incident or idk... any ideas??????? thanks anyway! :p