I hate the "selfless uke being the rehab of the trash seme" trope so much I have no words for it. It's unrealistic and totally unhealthy. And no one should be hurt by the excuse "I have trauma" (bc we all do at some levels). If someone can't treat you as you deserve, run away.
I hate the "selfless uke being the rehab of the trash seme" trope so much I have no words for it.
It's unrealistic and totally unhealthy. And no one should be hurt by the excuse "I have trauma" (bc we all do at some levels). If someone can't treat you as you deserve, run away.