Why this is so right tho? The only thing they have in common is sex, it's the only area in which they know each other well and know how to get along. I'm very sure that's why Jo is in the story cause dude is a literal therapist and he's good at making his patient (ian) open up to him.
I saw someone said in X if TJ and Ian had Joseph's communication skill Wet Sand would've ended before it even started.
Don't know if I should laugh or cry cause it's facts.