They were so cute in every lifetime but I loved their relationship in their 1st life sooo much. The friendship they had before they got married was so amazing and I loved it so much. Things could've been better after their marriage but I understand where they both are coming from.
Honestly I could relate to it way too much lolol. I'm very much like Julian when it comes to things like this. So I couldn't completely blame him as I understood where he was coming from. After any argument or if I'm displeased with something, I simply need time for myself. Most of the time it's not even because I'm mad at the other person. I just need time to calm myself down gather my thoughts so I don't end up crying while talking lmao. And I can literally just go back to normal after taking some time as if nothing happened after that. But with time I've understood everyone copes differently. Just as I need alone time for myself after any inconvenience, someone else could do things differently. There are people who want to talk about it right then and solve the problems or talk things out immediately which is also totally fine, communicating is definitely important.
But when these two people come together, there's bound to be issues. One of my best friends ended our friendship because of this I think (not 100% sure because she never give me an explanation or reason of her actions even after asking many times but I think this was it). I've seen people often interpreting my behaviour as silent treatment. When the main reason of me taking alone time before talking about it is because I end up crying when I'm angry lolol. So I need to calm down before i can confront someone or talk about it. She knew about it but yk sometimes it's too much to handle other people when you're in a bad mood yourself. And it was probably annoying to her too as we had different resolves. So that probably annoyed her as our personalities were different and regarding this matter.
So I think Julian would probably go apologise once he had gathered his thoughts but Leah would always apologise before he could do so as she wanted to end the argument fast. That's why it came off as "Julian never apologised first" but in reality it was Julian never got the Chance as Leah always did it before he could. Leah was right of course. And I also believe Julian could be more gentle with his words because even if he was saying those things out of concern, it was also inevitable that Leah was getting hurt by his words. I also hate it when people talk harshly no matter what the circumstances are because it doesn't hurt to be a little more considerate with words. He understood that too. But by the time he realised that and changed, it was sadly too late.
So in conclusion, communication is the key. I need to start communicating more perhaps lolol. Came here to talk about the story, ended up venting about myself
They were so cute in every lifetime but I loved their relationship in their 1st life sooo much. The friendship they had before they got married was so amazing and I loved it so much. Things could've been better after their marriage but I understand where they both are coming from.
Honestly I could relate to it way too much lolol. I'm very much like Julian when it comes to things like this. So I couldn't completely blame him as I understood where he was coming from. After any argument or if I'm displeased with something, I simply need time for myself. Most of the time it's not even because I'm mad at the other person. I just need time to calm myself down gather my thoughts so I don't end up crying while talking lmao. And I can literally just go back to normal after taking some time as if nothing happened after that. But with time I've understood everyone copes differently. Just as I need alone time for myself after any inconvenience, someone else could do things differently. There are people who want to talk about it right then and solve the problems or talk things out immediately which is also totally fine, communicating is definitely important.
But when these two people come together, there's bound to be issues. One of my best friends ended our friendship because of this I think (not 100% sure because she never give me an explanation or reason of her actions even after asking many times but I think this was it). I've seen people often interpreting my behaviour as silent treatment. When the main reason of me taking alone time before talking about it is because I end up crying when I'm angry lolol. So I need to calm down before i can confront someone or talk about it. She knew about it but yk sometimes it's too much to handle other people when you're in a bad mood yourself. And it was probably annoying to her too as we had different resolves. So that probably annoyed her as our personalities were different and regarding this matter.
So I think Julian would probably go apologise once he had gathered his thoughts but Leah would always apologise before he could do so as she wanted to end the argument fast. That's why it came off as "Julian never apologised first" but in reality it was Julian never got the Chance as Leah always did it before he could. Leah was right of course. And I also believe Julian could be more gentle with his words because even if he was saying those things out of concern, it was also inevitable that Leah was getting hurt by his words. I also hate it when people talk harshly no matter what the circumstances are because it doesn't hurt to be a little more considerate with words. He understood that too. But by the time he realised that and changed, it was sadly too late.
So in conclusion, communication is the key. I need to start communicating more perhaps lolol. Came here to talk about the story, ended up venting about myself