its human tendency to make assumptions and have a low self esteem . U dont have have to be so frustrated over it. If someone confessed to me my first thought wud be " is he being fr or is this a dare"
Also a lot of guys who are straight sleep with men whilst having a whole ass family. So ofc they have to be cautious
U might be the type of person to not question the other persons intentions but not everyone is like u . Even if seme was direct with his feeling dosnt mean the uke cant question it .
People with low self esteem tend to doubt even the obvious because they don't think they are worthy, and what Reeee said about guys with family hooking up with other guys on the side is reality, specially in a society like Japan.
Also, if you're serious about someone it's important to say your orientation, even though, as a bi man myself, it really pains me all the biphobia gay man usually have, that's why I'm glad this one isn't like that.
Also, the older we are the harder it is to dive into a relationship, specially if we never dated or had painful experiences.
But I totally get your frustrations.
I get it, but it doesn't mean I have to like it. Like I said, I didn't hate the story, it was fine. It's just not my preference.
Also, men who sleep with other men aren't straight, even if they have a family. That's just them lying to themselves.
Exactly but they still die while denying the fact that they are gay . So they ruin a lot of lives
Ouch. Felt personally attacked by this comment as someome who is ten times worse than the uke. AHahAhahaHa
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Honestly, I relate so hard. My self-esteem is non-existent. I wont trust people who even want to be friends with me...like, you're just tolerating me right? I'll try not to breathe wrong so you don't hate me.
My last..."situationship" ended with us only ever holding hands and hugging and about 6 months of me not believing the other person liked me. And then when they stopped liking me, I realized "oh they did like me." And I got sad. Unfortunately, for people that are single, inexperienced, trauma, and anxiety, the most basic things are giant hurdles in our way.
Admittedly still very frustrating to read about ahahaha
I see that this story has a very high rating so I'll probably get downvoted as hell for this but... why does the seme need to clarify that he's bi?
I like the cute mutual pining stories as much as the next person, but that's when it's actually justifiable and cute. In this story, the seme threw nothing but straight balls to the uke, always being completely direct in his intentions of wanting to date the uke and being very obvious about liking the uke, but the uke kept doubting which gave room for the seme to start doubting which made this whole situation and then the uke has the audacity to feel sad because he thought the seme was putting distance between them??? YOU WERE THE ONE NOT BEING CLEAR. The one who should be sad is the seme because he thought he had an unrequited crush this whole time. I know the uke didn't have any experience, but even an unexperienced person can understand human words, right? And in the end he "justifies" it by saying that he didn't know if the seme was straight??? WHY ON EARTH WOULD THE SEME CONFESS AND ASK YOU OUT IF HE DIDN'T LIKE MEN???
I mean, I did not completely hate the story, but I can't say I wasn't frustrated and this story is not really that fluffy because of the things I pointed out above.