Nah, I wouldn’t have said those poor choice of words, nor would I have ran up to his family without his acknowledgement but that’s just me not as mentally ill as Seo-an, so whatever lol.
As for Woowon, he’s def insecure to receive help from others as he’s always done it himself. No one is more right. They’re both wrong, because they both didn’t communicate as much, nor did Seo an did the right method
Doing something right would be to sit down with your partner, say "hey I've noticed this, we are a partnership and your burdens are my burdens and we can face them together" and come up with a way forward together that everyone agrees on, not breach your partners trust and secretly interfere with their family. It's controlling and violating and condescending. The reason this was impossible for Woowon and Seo-An is bc their relationship is built on the breaching of trust and violation and bc it's a story. But to imply that one character is 'more wrong' than the other and that what Seo-An did was 'more right' and 'you'd do the same'? That just isn't how relationships actually work.
It's almost as if WooWon's thoughts and opinions have no say in this relationship. The visual representation, by making Seoan stand on the top of the stairs while Woowon is at the bottom, meaning Seoan is the one who has the power here... damn.