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Genuinely Curious

Shutup! May 8, 2024 5:08 am

In real life, do people often jealous over past lovers? Is it normally/generally how people would feel? Are there people who actually feel insecure over past lovers, I mean they are already in the past?

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    Seeyiaa May 8, 2024 5:18 am

    Tbh it depends. The seme is a fuckboy in a way, so he slept with lots of people. It's not weird to feel insecure or jealous when you're dating a playboy/fuckboy, especially when a lot of people tends to be attracted to him and he's the type that will entertain people (the social type)

    That's my opinion based on my own experience

    Seeyiaa May 8, 2024 5:20 am
    Tbh it depends. The seme is a fuckboy in a way, so he slept with lots of people. It's not weird to feel insecure or jealous when you're dating a playboy/fuckboy, especially when a lot of people tends to be attr... Seeyiaa

    Also this is the uke first relationship based on what I skim (I dun read the full story yet), so that's why he feels insecure and jealous.

    BISHOP May 8, 2024 7:28 am

    it depends! tbh if i went on my husband’s insta and they had pictures of exes all over it, i’d probably be sus. but in the other hand, we all have histories and simply acknowledging that isn’t a bad thing. i will say i also have had past hookups in my phone but i don’t text them or have pictures of them, i just never declutter my contacts LOL. in this situation, i wouldn’t be jealous but i would probably be insecure and wonder how i was different from the tons of other people he’s been with.

    SugarBaby May 8, 2024 10:42 am

    Bro is touched starved

    desid May 8, 2024 10:57 am

    I dated a would be actor during my senior year in college, and let me tell ya it didn't feel good when I met 2 of his exes during his time in an open relationship

    They were really nice and fun to talk to, but you really can't fully squash the voice at the back of your head telling you you're not good enough or the flares of jealousy

    Uke's baby rage was a bit cathartic lmao

    Naty Hunter May 8, 2024 11:20 am

    I think it's normal to be a little jealous it's kinda irrational like the uke said it makes no sense to be hung up on your partner exes but you get anyways of course doing anything like hitting your partner for having a life before you is wrong

    My boyfriend almost got married a couple of years ago he bought a house and everything I not gonna like and say that it doesn't makes me a little jealous that he got so committed to someone once.