It necessitate that you don't identify with any of the characters.
You also need to recognize the characters and situations as being fictional. Which may be impossible if it trigger something, for example I have no problem with rape, but incest in any form make me angry and disgust me.
Lastly you need to not have maladaptive empathy. I don't know if there's anything to do about it if you do.
If you fulfill those conditions you won't feel sad or mad because there's nothing to be sad or mad about since it's not real.
Then all that's left is the control, power play, obsession and/or possessiveness. And that's the things people find hot. Not the rape in itself. Those things can't be found in healthy relationships so the only way to enjoy them (for someone sane and that isn't a monster) is through stories like this one.
It necessitate that you don't identify with any of the characters.
You also need to recognize the characters and situations as being fictional. Which may be impossible if it trigger something, for example I have no problem with rape, but incest in any form make me angry and disgust me.
Lastly you need to not have maladaptive empathy. I don't know if there's anything to do about it if you do.
If you fulfill those conditions you won't feel sad or mad because there's nothing to be sad or mad about since it's not real.
Then all that's left is the control, power play, obsession and/or possessiveness. And that's the things people find hot. Not the rape in itself. Those things can't be found in healthy relationships so the only way to enjoy them (for someone sane and that isn't a monster) is through stories like this one. (Or role play but that's not everyone's cup of tea)
How could anyone ever get turned on reading r@pe?? Do they not get sad and mad when they see "it hurts!" "Stop.." DO THEY NOT FEEL BAD? HOW CAN U LOOK AT THAT AND BE LIKE "OOOOO YES SO HOT" ????????