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I think using the word 'enjoying' was the trigger for the misunderstanding. Should've used...

Jay February 23, 2017 12:49 am

I think using the word 'enjoying' was the trigger for the misunderstanding. Should've used the word 'consensual'. Because victims of rape could've been drugged and 'enjoyed' the sex even though there was no consent, as a side effect of being drugged.

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    youraedthiswrogn February 23, 2017 1:13 am

    You aren't understanding what i was saying either : / i was correcting the guy who said its still rape if you enjoy it because you can't enjoy rape, they should've said its still rape if you REACT to it. You can't enjoy rape... it's not possible. I mean, by definition, if you're being raped you don't want the sex so how can you enjoy it. They should've said react, not enjoy, which is what i was saying.

    youraedthiswrogn February 23, 2017 2:41 am

    I hope that didn't come across as bitchy, i wasn't trying to be and i appreciate you calmly trying to tell me what you thought of the situation. It's nice to NOT be called a fucker.

    Tsundere August 4, 2018 12:20 pm
    You aren't understanding what i was saying either : / i was correcting the guy who said its still rape if you enjoy it because you can't enjoy rape, they should've said its still rape if you REACT to it. You ca... youraedthiswrogn

    You're wrong, I saw a rape victim confess with shame (normal because it is very difficult to confess this kind of thing when it was a rape, and I specify that I speak of the shame of feeling something like pleasure, not the fact of being raped, the one who must be ashamed is the culprit not the victim.) She had felt pleasure in spite of herself! So sadly no it is not impossible and that's the worst, we do not control that kind of thing. I think the victims do not admit it because it is unmentionable, they prefer to shut up and I will have done the same.

    youraedthiswrogn August 4, 2018 5:01 pm
    You're wrong, I saw a rape victim confess with shame (normal because it is very difficult to confess this kind of thing when it was a rape, and I specify that I speak of the shame of feeling something like plea... Tsundere

    I actually know that it is possible for the physical stimulation to feel good, but i'm not wrong. That is the distinction i was trying to make in the conversation you responded to here, there is a difference between "enjoying" and "reacting to a physical stimulus". "enjoying" implies consent, that you WANTED what happened. By definition, you CAN'T "enjoy" rape as rape happens against your will. Sex that is "enjoyed" is sex, not rape. To "enjoy" is a positive emotion, it's something you want, it sounds like your friend just felt good, but didn't want the sex and it was a negative experience for them. Negative emotions, not positive. A rape victim who says they "enjoyed" the sex would just be using the wrong wording.

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