Not too sure but how about these?
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/unmei_no_kisu_wa_oazuke/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/overdose/ This one the uke is kinda like that at first but dumps seme later but they do get together again
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/puchitto_hajiketa/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/otoshiana_ni_hamerarete/
I can understand your frustration. The weak teary eyed uke can get annoying at times. Here's a few strong-willed uke: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hana_wa_saku_ka/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tight_rope/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/blue_sky_complex/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/punch_up/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/no_color/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kuchizuke_wa_uso_no_aji/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/konna_otoko_wa_aisareru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/nirameba_koi/
The first one is my new fav, thank u so much and I already read the others u suggested me to read thank u
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Ok mangas! Attention to all those who love reading BL....I hate the stories that show the uke being a pussy..and weak....and not getting the logic like really! Just because he treats you so freaking badly u love him?! Like really?.... and love the rapist who raped the uke and the uke falls in love with him.. like, are you serious?...or how easily the uke gets jello...seen it and read it many times...*cough! *cough!~~ "Ah!~ you! You, idiot!" Or! "I should've never came back! Sensei, you cheater!" And so on, yada Yada...yadddddaaaaaaa......u get the whole picture what I'm complaining right?...so I beg of you give me a yaoi manga that is slow and the uke is kinda strong and knows what's wrong or fucking right....or the uke is not a pussy and knows Fucking logic....thank you for reading my rant and thank you sooo much for recommending me those S mangas