I agree, but Wookyung was never was interested in BDSM or anything of the sort, just went along with it for the physical pain and sex. Tbh he’s made that pretty clear the entire time, Heewon should’ve exited left stage as soon as he found out Wookyung didn’t even know what BDSM was and wouldn’t follow the rules. Heewon is the one with experience and should’ve recognized this. He did, but chose to continue anyway. Wookyung definitely needs therapy or smthn but he showed Heewon every red flag front and center, never really trying to hide his true feelings. Heewon knew this, saw every red flag, saw through every one of Wookyung’s acts, and STILL didn’t tap out.
Idk I do think that Wookyung is very messed up upstairs but it’s totally on Heewon for being in this situation, since Wookyung made it utterly clear from day one that he didn’t know jack about BDSM and didn’t really care. I don’t think it’s fair to say he’s “legally and morally wrong for the way he wants to play” because in reality, he never wanted to play at all and has no understanding of what “play” even is. This is his first and only exposure to BDSM and “play” so of course he doesn’t understand. I also definitely don’t think Heewon helped that be constantly breaking the boundaries he set. Okay I’m done now lmao
Again, this has nothing to do with Heewon. This comment was about Wookyung, and how his behavior isn't that of someone seeking bdsm but is in fact unhealthy all by himself. It doesn't make Wookyung look better to say Heewon isn't perfect either because we already know that. He is legally and morally wrong for the way he wants to play whether you think it's fair or not. He absolutely knows what play is, I'm sorry but do you know how to read? Wookyung is familiar with bdsm but doesn't want a dynamic relationship, he's used terms and shown he understands them. He met the bartender of the gay bar on a bdsm app. So don't act like he doesn't know the way he's behaving isn't "bdsm play". It's selfishly provoking Heewon to hurt him more because he himself enjoys it, and there's not one thought for Heewon's preferences nor respect for his boundaries during that time. One last time, this isn't about Heewon. If I wanted to complain about him then I would, but I'm talking about Wookyung all by himself. And that's being dangerously drawn to being badly hurt and putting himself in the position to be drunk raped, drugged and molested (after it already happened once), and then in the hospital. (And yes Heewon absolutely should have called things off and just let him go tbh)
Y'all are delusional thinking that the MC is into something as simple as CNC. Like, he was legitimately raped (he was drunk, couldn't technically consent) and still got off on it. He's okay with being put in the hospital he gets beat so bad. He wants that, he likes it. He even drank a drink that he thought was drugged and got assaulted and was pretty fine with it. MC has issues that won't be solved by a "good Dom", because he's already shown he doesn't care about what the top/Doms want, he wants to get off for himself. MC doesn't want aftercare nor does he have patience for the healing process. He won't communicate, he just provokes and presses buttons. ML has his faults too obviously, so I'm not excusing that. Just speaking up to say the MC is legally and morally wrong for the way he wants to play, not to mention mentally and physically bad for him. MC is the definition of a toxic sub with sub frenzy. Thx for coming to my soapbox lol