I get her suffering and the empathy is there, but at the same time, our main character went through a really hard time as well and still she didn't choose to act the way Anita is behaving. I also hate the trope that because I'm hurting. I'm allowed to hurt other people and still be forgiven for that. Again, our main character life is also not that great and she still chooses to be a better version than she was last time. Anita had a hard time in her life. I will give her that, but at the same time, just because you had a hard life. Doesn't give you the right to hurt other people.
I get her suffering and the empathy is there, but at the same time, our main character went through a really hard time as well and still she didn't choose to act the way Anita is behaving. I also hate the trope that because I'm hurting. I'm allowed to hurt other people and still be forgiven for that. Again, our main character life is also not that great and she still chooses to be a better version than she was last time. Anita had a hard time in her life. I will give her that, but at the same time, just because you had a hard life. Doesn't give you the right to hurt other people.