My parents were 10 years apart. Mom seduced Dad when he was 17, they were married when he turned 18.
Ur dad's a victim
I was the luckiest daughter in the universe. He was the only one allowed to hold me as a child. You mock my amazing memories of this man with your petty mind.
girl what? When did i mock him? For calling him a victim? Thats literally what he is. I never mocked him i called him a victim because again THATS WHAT HE IS. You said your mom is 10 years older than your dad meaning she was 27 almost 30 going after a 17 year old and in your words "she seduced him and they got married when he turned 18" meaning tbey were talking possibly even dating when he was a minor. It wasn't seducing it was grooming. your mom groomed your dad. She went after a 17 year old boy at the damn age of 27 thats literally grooming. You deadass said "she seduced him" You deadass admitted it by trying to justify age gaps when op said that the ml is going to hell for crushing on a 10 year old at 20. Idk if youre just young and ignorant and cant handle the truth but your parents relationship story that youre somehow trying to justify is textbook grooming and not sweet and romantic at all like you think it is. I never insulted your dad. Being a victim which that is what he is isnt an insult and it isnt mocking him. Im sure he was an amazing dad. Still doesnt mean your mom wasnt a predator who groomed a 17 year old into marrying her im assuming right when he turned 18.
I never mocked "your amazing memories with your father." Calling him a victim which that is what he is isnt mocking anything and youre hella weird for saying that
right, like how’d they come to that conclusion. “Petty mind” my ass, it’s just calling stuff out. no one would’ve know their mom had eyes on a 17 year old at her grown age of 27 until they wanted to share it with the class . 27 meaning frontal lobe developed and everything…
Dawg if u lie make it more believable lol js throwing guilt trips like it's your hobby nd shii
But they are couple with that much age gap. My aunt and my uncle for example. But they met when both of them over 20
I understand what you're saying. But still, it's not nice to say that when the man and woman married happily, having a happy daughter. Building a happy life. If the man himself didn't think himself as a 'pedo victim' you mentioned, who are we to say anything.
I'm not defending pedo. But there's a difference between people that choose to be with someone with age gap and someone that unwilling and not consent to that.
are you actually trying to justify ops comment by comparing ur aunt and uncles relationship who you said were both over 20 when they met to ops comment saying her mom seduced her dad when he was 17 and she was 27 and married him at 18? are you like actually fucking stupid? like that wasnt even the issue. it was the fact the relationship started between a minor and an adult. "im not defending a pedo!!!" when you literally are by trying to say "but my aunt and uncle have an age gap but they met when they were over 20!" like yea that isnt wrong bcs ITS 2 CONSENTING ADULTS. the age gap isnt the big issue here if ops dad was 21 itd be loads better but he wasnt he was 17 and she was 27. thats the problem. "oh but he consented! he consented! we cant judge if he consented!!" newsflash he was obviously groomed to consent. he was groomed to probably spend his years thinking what he went through wasnt wrong. especially bcs its less frowned upon for an older woman to go after a younger man. and have it seem like its no big deal when in reality it very much is. he probably even got tricked to think it was his "idea" to be with her. im not judging the age gap im not judging him for being with her. im judging the woman who decided to go after a minor then married him when he turned 18. obviously its good hes in ops life and is a good dad despite what he went through. still doesnt make him any less of a victim or even justify literally anything you said. like you genuinely sound fucking stupid for commenting at all
Gosh. I'm not comparing. Which in my comment comparing?? I'm trying to say there's a relationship with age gap like that because you're saying that person is lying? Calm down
girl i am not the comment that replied saying op was lying that was someone else maybe look at the user name before responding. i brought up that aunt and uncle thing cause you replied to me saying "there's a difference between ppl that choose to be with someone with age gap and someone that unwilling and not consent to that." then in that other reply be like "there are couples with gap my aunt and uncle who met when they were both over 20 have an age an gap.* sounded very much like you were comparing imo. that's why i brought that up in my reply. maybe you weren't trying to but that's just how i interpreted it. so myb. also i don't think that person who said they were lying was saying op was lying about the age gap or the relationship itself. they were probably saying that op was lying in their reply saying how their dad was the only one allowed to hold them as a baby. they thought op had said that just to guilt trip me for saying their dad's a victim. not the fact the agegap between ops mom and dad was so "unrealistic" that it had to be fake. it was the comment of op saying their dad was the only one allowed to hold them when they were a baby. like obviously a 10 year age gap isnt revolutionary and is very common.
Oh my bad. It was someone else. Well I'm not comparing or anything. Maybe I misunderstood something.
and you're right. 10 year age gap is not common. But maybe because the older generations around me have age gap like 5 or 6 so I didn't think about it much. Unless age gap that more than 10 like 30 years, then I definitely can't view it the same way
20 with a 10 year old? Sir, you're going to HELL.