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I feel like you didn't understand what hee bun mean (just like jumi), I believe he said that to make her understand that he is no more interested in yoo won because he has better things to do, (like caring about her) but obviously he cannot say that!!!

When was he a jerk? He was BLUNT, but he wasn't mean about it. Go back and read, what he says is "you shouldn't stick around me and Yoo Won, it'll hurt you." and then he shows that he knows how Jumi feels about him. It seemed pretty obvious to me that Hee Bum and Yoo Won had come to the fireworks on a date, but Yoo Won arrived late so Jumi accompanied Hee Bum, but instead of leaving when the two were finally together she decided to stay there playing the third wheel. Jumi knows they're dating again, two people who are dating going to a fireworks show together is clearly a date and she made the conscious decision to play the third wheel in their date, Hee Bum knows how Jumi feels about him and so knows that she is doing it on purpose because she likes him so he is telling her that she shouldn't put herself in a position where she is going to get hurt. She is putting herself IN their date, if they weren't considerate of her feelings they would've been holding hands and acting lovey dovey which would've hurt her feelings. That is why they hold hands behind her back, because they're don't want to hurt her. Hee Bum is just saying "if you keep doing this, you're going to end up hurt".

Ooooooh, alternate view.

The very first words out of his mouth after the folks left:
Hee: You should stop
Jumi: "Huh?
Hee: STanding between me and Yoo Won Hyung. You should stop.
---pause--
There's no need to do that anymore. You standing there is really uncomfortable.
Jumi: What are you saying?

Now notice that everything he said was blaming her and ordering her to do something. YOU should stop. And that it's uncomfortable could easily be read as "uncomfortable for me (hee)--not for her. "Standing between me and Yoo Won" sounds like she's being a pest, in the way, interrupting them, etc. It's very negative in the way it's expressed.

I would have taken huge offense.

Compare that to:

"I don't want you to be uncomfortable, Jumi. I think of you as a friend and the best thing right now is X and Y. I don't want you hurt."

BIG BIG Difference that putting the burden on HER, sounding as if he's blaming HER, and making it look as if she's this interloper in the way of his good times.

You want to quote the entire dialogue instead of just the beginning? Instead of just the parts that look bad? The entire dialogue is: Bum: "you should stop." Jumi: "what?" Bum: "Standing between me and Yoo Won hyung... you should stop. Theres no need to do that anymore. You standing there is really uncomfortable." Jumi: "what are you saying? OHHH!!! Hey, LOLOL. You're upset that Yoo Won oppa was only talking to me just now, right? Is that it? As expected Kang Hee Bum's the king of obsession. You have nothing to be jealous of, so you get jealous of the relationship between Yoo Won oppa and i. Don't worry, when its time to step away i'll do that.19 yr old Kim Jumi is not that oblivious." Bum: "yeah. This is only hard for you. I'm saying its pitiful for you." Jumi: "what? i think you're misunderstanding something. I... It's not that i... like Yoo Won oppa." Bum: "i know."---- if you read through the ENTIRETY of the text you see that Hee Bum was just concerned for Jumi as a friend, he knows how she feels about him and by saying "you shouldn't stand between us" he means "you like me, if you stay near me and Yoo Won you're going to see us acting lovey dovey and it'll hurt your feelings" by "it's uncomfortable" he means "i can't act lovey dovey with my boyfriend knowing i'm hurting you if i do so in the open". Even if he WAS blaming Jumi, which i don't think he was, he'd have every right to. Jumi already knew Hee Bum was waiting for Yoo Won, she also knows that they're dating. Anyone with common sense would give the two space once they were together because they're DATING and watching a fireworks show... It is a date and she made the choice to stay there even after Yoo Won showed up.

If I start a conversation: "Hey, bitch, get out of my face," you're not likely to listen clearly to the rest. :D Exaggeration for effect.

His first sentences are the ones that confused her and made us angry. That he said things that were STILL hurtful for at least showed his concern AFTER hardly fixes the fact that what he first said was INSENTIVE as hell.

And if you want to bring up common sense, anyone who is dating and really wants to be alone with his guy doesn't hang with a girl and ignore the fact that his guy already showed up. He would have been WAITING for Yoo, not hanging with Jumi. So, let's stop making excuses for Hee Bum's errors and laying it on Jumi.

Key word, exaggeration...

Why is this common sense? Why would he HAVE to be watching the door like an obsession? Maybe he was enjoying himself talking with his friend and knew his boyfriend would find him when he got there? Just because watching the door without blinking is something YOU would do doesn't mean it is common sense or something others do...

Because HE is the one waiting for someone to arrive, not Jumi. He's the one waiting for his date, not Jumi. He's the one bitching about her being there next to him, not Jumi.

So, if he doesn't want HER in the way, he should not put her in the way.

And maybe you've never been in love or something. I know that when I was waiting for my boyfriend or husband, I was LOOKING eagerly for them, be it at a restaurant or at a park or wherever. My eyes longed to see them and looked for them.

But he didn't have to go over to Jumi and stay there. He chose to. So, who's at fault?

Hey, when did he put Jumi in the way? Wasn't it Jumi who called him over? lol.

If I call you over, you can come and say hi and then LEAVE. He stayed. He turne dhis back to the door through which his boyfriend was s howing up. He STAYED by her after the selfie.

So, yes, it's his fault. If he wanted time just with Yoo Won, he should have excused himself and gone near the door to catch him when he showed up.

People should not complain about a situation they created.

He's not bitching about Jumi being there... i've already explained that he is worried about HER, not himself. He says "this is only hard on you. It is pitiful.", he is saying he doesn't want her to have to see him with his boyfriend because she is in love with him. You're reaching.

Hee Bum has made it clear he does what he wants. When Yoo Won took his hand, he could have just said something to Jumi, excused himself, and found another spot to hang with Yoo. He did not. He stayed right there by Jumi.

Please. He's got a will. He did what he did and then blamed someone else.

Oh yeah? Is that how it works? Thanks for the insight. lol.

Yep. It is. He's not a baby. He made decisions. He has a certain responsibility--and part of that is not to be mean to the person who stood by him when his beloved abandoned him. He owed Jumi more respect and kindness in dealing with this.

Okay, so if people call you over you just say hi and then leave? Jumi is very important to Hee Bum that is why he stayed with her, as a friend. As i've pointed out, they were clearly on a date and anyone with a brain would leave the two once they were together. You're assuming he WAS being mean, but the text alone proves you wrong. He was being considerate when he said what he did and the only reason Jumi was so hurt is because what he said was true, she WILL be hurt if she has to watch Hee Bum acting lovey dovey with Yoo Won. She didn't know that he knew how she felt and it was a shock to her that he knew. I'm not blaming Jumi, i'm saying no one is at fault. Both Hee Bum AND Jumi are hurting and it doesn't make sense to hate on either one of them.

He DID... What do you think the intervention was all about? That WAS him taking action... As a matter of fact, it happened IN THE ORDER of events that you said he "could've acted"... Yoo Won took his hand, Yoo Won walked away, and then he said something to Jumi. As far as him finding another spot, i don't think you're paying attention. The reason Hee Bum had the talk with Jumi is because she is "standing between him and Yoo Won", he is worried she is going to try to tag along in the future and decided to face her head on. Have you considered that maybe he knew that even IF he decided to move spots that she'd still follow along trying to be part of the "three of them", using her friendship with Hee Bum as an excuse to stay close to Hee Bum and Yoo Won's romantic relationship?

She did not TAG along. She did not GO AND STEP in between them. He went over to her and stayed there while waiting for his boyfriend. THAT was his decision.

If he wanted her out of their way, not to be in the way, not to be hurt by them holding hands or flirting, then don't hang with her while you are waiting for your boyfriend. Say hi, take the selfie, and go back to wait for Yoo Won in the stairs, by the door, anywhere but by Jumi.

She was happily looking at fireworks, not trying to jam herself between Yoo and Hee.

And consider that his ACTIONS contradicted his words. So, perhaps he also has blossoming feelings and is repressing them, but by staying by her side. His words to her might also be his words to his own conflicted self.