doesnt fucking matter, he couldve discussed it with him before everything went down, couldve apologized right after, not wait years and years after he accidentally saw him again, he was old enough to get his ass out of the situation and he sure as hell was old enough to conclude "oh wait, i should warn the other person that i supposedly like of what im about to do or at least apologize right after"
If his mom never comes home then suddenly did that day, it's possible she had cameras in the house or something.
That could make him feel like she's literally always watching.
Very terrifying and traumatizing.
Maybe it's not like that (I know a lot of fans prefer to simply hate him).
But I can't help but feel sorry for him because I had a friend with a mom like that in high school and things got so bad he ended up disappearing.
We all hoped he ran away but some of us worry she ended him.
Back to the story, I wonder what she did to Han Garam that he can't even remember.
It's the mom they should both be wanting to get back at, not one of her victims, IMO.
You only say that because you never lived trough that. Especially because we already saw how violent she can get. Imagine what she would do behind closed doors. Especially if she’s religious she could make the pastor degrade and shame him in front of the whole church and community. I’ve seen it happen before. These type of parents make people want to commit suicide.
My best friend for example get watched and controlled with every move he does. It’s hell on earth.
firstly you dont know anything about me, we are strangers on the internet, and i will stand by what i said, a simple sorry in passing even couldve done at least something and he knew then what was happening
I don’t understand why you are being so defensive. I’m just saying I’ve seen something like this happen before especially what kind of mental toll it is living in fear because of a homophobic parent. Hating on someone is easy but understanding where they are coming from is also something you should understand. There’s no good and evil in situations like this. And there’s nuance to this situation. The answer is not always black and white
My best friends mom is a homophobe and he’s living in hell. I sound like a good idea to stick by your boyfriends side but if the other option is being homeless or worse being forced into anti gay therapy I would drop the boyfriend. His survival skills just kicked in. People who actually live with homophobic parents would understand