I think that they meant that the jerking off wasn't necessary for the story and that the author just put it there to "prove" it was yaoi. I don't really know how to explain it but I understand what they mean. It's so annoying how bl stories always portray men who can't keep their hand to themselves even when their temperament and personality doesn't match with their "raw need for each other".
This is such a lame take if you don’t want to see sex then don’t ready yaoi’s otherwise you’re complaining over something you’re willingly reading. Them getting each other off was an expression of mutual sexual attraction, which is completely normal. If you’re looking for a slow burn then also go somewhere else.
Idk what kinda gooner mentality u have this is funny but i did wanna sex scenes but thats WITH better bonding not just a random lemme jerk u off real quick bro. And what does if youre looking for slowburn then go somewhere else mean. This is a slowburn so many chapters and all they did was act jealous or just one random chapter of JERK YOU OFF. Expression of mutual sexual attraction could be communication too but yaoi=dick all the time ok got it
it wasnt just straight to dick handling, we're several chapters in. you also knew exactly where you were if youve actually been reading this story. ian was jerking off thinking about eunsan five or six chapters in. he was jerking eunsan off six or seven chapters later. it was obvious this wasnt going to be a 50 chapter later sex scene story based on that trajectory alone. the story has been GOOD, it matches the pacing well. you being mad over... well frankly idk what youre so mad over considering it was obvious ages ago this wasnt a slow burn and youre reading YAOI. youre mad over nothing. again, if dicks arent your thing but mm romance is, the shounen ai section is RIGHT there.
You're the one mad by the way. This user was trying to explain the point since the beginning but you just hear what you want to hear. It's not the fact that they're gay or that it is yaoi the problem, in their eyes, it's just that they think it didn't have to be this early. It was kinda abrupt. Just because you jerk off, doesn't mean you will jerk off your crush 2 days later. I don't understand how you think that's coherent.

The story and all is good but that jerking off each other was so unnecessary. I feel like it sort of puts this idea of a vulgar plot to create an image that all BL manhwas are just sex and nothing else. This story would be better if they didnt wank each others pps honestly.