yaoi when there's ever the slightest opportunity to add raping an unconscious person:

Istg none of these authors actually consider it raoe and that's why they add it unknowingly. Rape culture is everywhere

true and i'd take it a step further to say they don't believe explicit non-consent like "no" "stop" "take it out" etc. means something is rape either. everyone is insane

Real I think I have read ONE manhwa where the bottom asked to slow down and the top actually listened. Sigh

Bro fr the amount of times rape just gets brushed off is astounding

100%

NERD PROJECT MY BELOVED
You KNOW the shit's bad when I was genuingly in shock he actually stopped
As a kid I didnt care much, but now as an adult, the constant "Wait! Slow down! Stop!" just feels icky

i didn't think twice about it either ! this is a good point, a lot of us started reading yaoi when we were children so obviously it must have influenced our views of what sex is supposed to look like before we got older and got more sex ed / started contemplating these things more deeply. it makes me sad to know there was a time i would read these things and think they were normal :(

Yeah same but Im SUPER happy ppl are calling it out now, 5-10 years ago. People definitely would've ignored it so we're improving in some aspects at least!!!