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holy misinformation bro

panagen September 27, 2025 6:04 pm

the comment section is wild as with every comment section under a toxic yaoi but i can't just look past the misinformation i'm seeing just because people think they know stuff that they don't actually really know about. speaking and sharing misinformation about a sex practice that you personally are not a part of ain't doing justice to the practice, and is the reason why ppl who practise bdsm are still seen as immoral and stigmatised by society.

and i am saying all that as someone who has been doing bdsm as a dom for YEARS + active in the bdsm community with friends of various roles who also engage in bdsm. I'm not scared of sharing this because bdsm is not immoral, and shouldn't be villainised because the golden rule of bdsm has always been about CONSENT. it's because of ppl who hv twisted ideas of bdsm and think it's alw abt inducing "abusive" practices against subs that ruin the rep of BDSM. do ppl still know the meaning of "abuse"? I have no idea what kind of things ppl hv been learning abt bdsm from unreliable sources, but not everything that portrays people getting beaten up while in bondage and sexually engaged is bdsm, it sometimes is simply just r*pe i fear (⊙…⊙ )

i've never commented on any BL on this platform but srsly, the misinfo pmo icl

Responses
    tetastetitastetotas September 27, 2025 8:44 pm

    You know they're misinformed when they refer to BDSM as a "negative and unhealthy" practice. It's probably just some teenager who wants to show off their knowledge of something they don't practice

    miaumiau September 30, 2025 3:51 am

    talk your shit, youre so right <3

    suningemini October 2, 2025 8:15 am

    This story is NOT just BDSM tho. It's about VIOLENCE, DRUGS & ABUSE. What exactly are you fighting for? People like you who read Incomplete Combustion are thinking they're only getting BDSM, so you complain when you see themes of abuse, coercion and violence from CH1-15. This is NOT just BDSM.

    HYPOCRITES.

    suningemini October 2, 2025 9:01 am

    A story having sadomasochistic themes doesn't automatically make it a BDSM story. This is NOT a BDSM story. Lol. You can say it has themes of BDSM. Just like it has themes of non-con, and violence. Youre hyperfixating on the wrong thing. Also, BDSM is NOT inherently unhealthy, nor is it inherently healthy. So what are you fighting for?

    panagen October 2, 2025 12:53 pm
    A story having sadomasochistic themes doesn't automatically make it a BDSM story. This is NOT a BDSM story. Lol. You can say it has themes of BDSM. Just like it has themes of non-con, and violence. Youre hyperf... suningemini

    Maybe you need to brush up your comprehension skills because I have never once mentioned this BL has themes of BDSM throughout my comment. I was specifically addressing the misinformation I saw about BDSM spread by certain users in the comment section, NOT pertaining to the BL. How is it hypocritical of me to correct a sex practice that I engage in when I see someone sharing fake information? Also, who are you to claim that BDSM is neither healthy or unhealthy? It's literally just ONE form of sex play just like every other forms of sex plays and if you don't vibe with it or have done it, it's not your place to speak about it.

    Also FYI, I've been reading all sorts of toxic unhealthy GLs & BLs since at least 15 years ago (I am older than you, I'm certain) even on other websites, and I am a huge Harada fan, so why would you even assume I am calling this BL out for not representing "BDSM" well when I do BDSM myself and know that this story doesn't revolve around BDSM? I am FULLY aware this BL shows abuse, violence and drug use, and I have no problem with the BL showing these topics since I am used to seeing this kind of content—I love even more extreme content such as gore and cannibalism so this kind of content doesn't phase me at all.

    If you actually used critical thinking to look at my comment and others' replies to my comment instead of jumping to criticise everyone for being "hypocritical", you would know that I have no issues with the BL, and the issue is with the misinformation I saw abt BDSM. Also, everyone is entitled to their own opinion about this BL and it doesn't make you a better person to argue against someone who is not okay with the toxic content shown because everyone has different thresholds—some people may have just read this BL by chance and it's their rights to say they dislike what they are seeing, just like how people have the rights to say they like this.

    Quit thinking you have the high horse over anyone else just because you are okay with such content while others aren't when you and I are both reading on an illegal platform. Even worse, continuing to spread misinfo abt BDSM after someone who's experienced in BDSM has already addressed the issue only makes you look uneducated and stubborn, but really, I shouldn't have expected anything from someone who cannot handle divisive opinions that other people have on a BL that has a convoluted and controversial plot, furthermore a child who jumps at everyone who doesn't agree with what they say