My thoughts exactly… and now he's gonna take him to the same bed where he slept with so many others.....at one time.......when uke was there. This is what I call indecent (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸
Oh, the absolute delight of meeting a bunch of people your partner has already slept with. And even if he swears those days are behind him, his friends and acquaintances will be there to fondly remind you both of all his unforgettable ‘achievements.
And of course, I’m just waiting for people to chime in with, ‘Well, they’re not in a relationship yet, so there’s nothing wrong here.’ Right — because emotional damage has a start date, apparently. The truth is, it is wrong. If you end up in a relationship after that kind of behavior, one person always ends up carrying the humiliation.
There’s something to be said for basic decency. Sleeping around might seem like just ‘harmless fun’ at the time, but the past doesn’t magically disappear the moment someone decides to settle down. When your history walks into the room before you do — in the form of awkward introductions, knowing glances, or shared memories with half the people at the party — it does affect the relationship. Not because of insecurity, but because dignity and self-respect still mean something.

After he slept with so many people, he goes and touches him. I would be so disgusted.