comment section straight up got me realizing some of my experiences aren't as normalized as i thought cause i did naught question that interaction at all-- it seemed so normal,, and has kind of happened in my life too hhhh but at least with these two there's still some care for each other and it's not "strictly" transactional
That's unfortunate I'm sorry.
I think it's difficult for others who haven't experienced it, to understand the dynamics of a family who don't know how to communicate or talk through their feelings.
The greatest gifts parents can impart upon their children is emotional intelligence and resilience.
I'm surprised people are confused. Older brother was under immense pressure his whole life - a real victim that Asian appearance and success focused tiger parenting.
In an attempt to get take the pressure of his younger brother, he deliberately took on the load of their expectations and discouraged his parents meddling by saying MC wasn't capable. I think his plan was to be successful enough he could come home and 'save' his brother, and they'd move out and away from their parents.
The issue is despite his attempts, the absent parenting impacted both of them anyway. They've both deeply internalised their parents expectations. So MC has withdrawn himself and disregards all his achievements because he assumes nobody really cares (especially when compared to his brother). While his older brother, like many high achievers, has worked himself into the ground and is burnt out. Neither like asking for help because they're hyper independent.
But they're still siblings and likely love each other. Both just feel alienated and don't know how to connect, hence the suggestion of money. I find it weird how people would say there's some odd motive. He has consistently messaged and sought out his younger brother (who is actively avoiding him lol). if he knows he's motivated by money, and has the means, why wouldn't you offer....to spend time with someone you care about?