And just to be clear, I don’t look down on sex workers and don’t see seo as dirty. I’m just curious of the views on sex r for sex workers who have a partner and have sex w other people for work.
Just me being personal, not speaking for everyone. I don’t really like the sex work aspect but that’s what makes this story interesting. It involves sex work and usually authors shy away from it in stories, especially in a relationship. Top mentioned (ch 10) how he has to force himself to get hard in front of someone who’s not his lover, sometimes not even his type. And I’m thinking: sometimes? So you got hard when there were others your type? (Probably not but I enjoy overthinking).
No disrespect meant to sex workers, I agree with you. I can’t separate sex and relationship. Was it mentioned the top had other work options? Why is he doing sex work again? I don’t remember, but I don’t feel like rereading it. That black haired coworker doing all of that and making the Uke watch…I found it very disrespectful and disgusting. Even though he becomes nicer later on, what he did isn’t forgivable or forgettable.
I’m also a bit annoyed with the top’s lack of expressions, more so than the whole sex work.
Ig maybe it’s cuz I see sex in a relationship more emotional and just for each other, or maybe in an open relationship and both do it it’s more understandable. But like, if he had sex with other people as a career when it’s not his only option, wouldn’t that mean he enjoys that career? It would be another thing if it’s solo, or both of them engage in having sex with other people. He has also gotten jealous over natori being around other people, but wouldn’t that be kinda weird considering his line of work?
I’d feel like if he enjoyed his line of work, sex wouldn’t really be an emotional thing for him?
I mean ig if natori is fine w it then that’s that. And ig I’m just projecting my own feelings on this story, cuz if I had a partner whose career is having sex w other people, I’d feel like sex wasn’t emotional for they or they enjoyed having sex w others.
I mean seo is great in other aspects of the relationship, but I would be curious how seo would feel if natori did have sex with others. Like would he get jealous, or be ok w it since he also does the same thing. Rather than all the stuff w the ex’s, that would an interesting thing to explore in the relationship.
But ya, i understand why some people feel uncomfortable. If other people don’t, then good for them, but I can’t see it as romantic.