hi!! it may feel like there is no way out but please do not kys!! there is always someone willing to help and you still haven’t read all the mangas out there. what your mother feels is valid, sometimes it’s hard to let
go of someone you have been with all your life, but it’s also true that you may be better off without your dad. i don’t know if you are asking for solutions or just wanna be heard, but if you are alright with it maybe you can start selling something related to
mangas (such as handmade keychains or little things like that) in order to make some money and to be motivated. also you could start learning japanese or learn how to draw to keep your mind entertained and not always stressed. if you are not keen on the idea of making your hobby your job don’t do ir though! i suggested it since it works well for me, but some people find it annoying. hope this helps you!! sorry if my english is weird, its not my first language.
I am so sorry that you are going through this. How old are you? can you work a part time job? Do you have access to local community resources? There are also Addiction‑Related Communities, Online Support Groups, National Domestic Violence Support Services and so many more. If you are underage you can have your school as a support hub.
Honestly, if you don't take action now nothing will change. And your mom need to realize that her action has consequences. She is literally destroying herself and her kids life. Talk to your mom and explain to her that leaving or staying away from your dad when he’s violent doesn’t make her a bad Christian. Tell her that God wants her to be safe and healthy. protecting herself and you is the right thing to do. It might help you guys if you also involve a pastor, minister, a Christian counselor, or a faith-respecting family friend idk like anyone she trusts.
About your sister, she can get help from her friends, or community programs for childcare, financial support, local parenting resources, social services, or nonprofits.
ill be ur friend and u can rant to me, trust >:)
I don't really post much here and I know ranting here on this website is so fucking weird as hell but I really have no one to talk to in rl I have friends but they weren't really that helpful and its a really personal issue. So I came from a dysfunctional family, my dad is a severe alcoholic and im talking about days where he would just drink and be violent towards us and my mom who refuses to leave him because its "against her beliefs" (shes a christian) and mind you her husband is one of the reasons she got a chronic illness so she cant ever leave him now. Lastly, my sister who had an unwanted pregnancy and the father of her child left her so she became a single mom and before getting pregnant she doesn't have a stable job so we were truely fucked because my mom got this illness now we gotta take care of another child and we were just barely getting by at this point. Now idk what to do im either going to kill myself or kill my dad but the only thing that keeping me still sane is my mother and reading mangas.