I mean, for me he's just the typical emotionally inept top archetype and I'm still gonna eat that like the slop it is. I'm not that pressed on his initial personality cus for all I care this tracks with how in Asian mythologies gods and heavenly beings paid little concern to human condition and moreso to the heaven's creed. And given the 180 he had after the mc's past incarnation died I'd say he got the wakeup call he severely needed, perhaps

dude is impulsive and stupid, no wonder your husband died the first time