IKR?! Like, who hurt you and damaged your brian so much?! And the worst thing is that these topics are mostly not even correctly addressed, rape is damn rape, end of story! The worst thing about yaoi now is the romanticization of rape...and people go and defend all these black/red flags because they are hot... gosh
To determine whether a series has potential and is for you, you have to get to know it, or you tend to comment on series you don't know, but that's up to you, angst doesn't bother me, but as long as it's correctly addressed, after over 20 years of reading BL - angst just for angst is the main problem in BL lately

I really understand that there are these sick people who have such disgusting kinks...but it never ceases to amaze me what goes through the minds of authors to create and draw such horrible stories... society is degrading...and such stories doesn't help, as brainwashed people don't see anything wrong with that and later this changes their perception of reality, saw it already many times...