Okay, this might be a little long…..I get that she wants to be helpful but I really dislike that shes going down the route of being so hell bent on being “helpful” that she’s actually causing more harm than good. She’s only focusing on her NEED to seen as more that she’s not taking her husband or his men’s feelings and their expertise into consideration at all. She’s literally a novice at EVERYTHING (literally your first interaction with the outside world) and you’re arguing with seasoned warriors/mages, forcing them to take additional steps to protect you when they could have been focusing on the war. Overall she’s being really selfish about this war… Riftan definitely needs to loosen the reigns a bit and actually give her the space to learn and train the way she actually wants; so that she can become confident in herself and become the badass that she can be.
Okay, this might be a little long…..I get that she wants to be helpful but I really dislike that shes going down the route of being so hell bent on being “helpful” that she’s actually causing more harm than good. She’s only focusing on her NEED to seen as more that she’s not taking her husband or his men’s feelings and their expertise into consideration at all. She’s literally a novice at EVERYTHING (literally your first interaction with the outside world) and you’re arguing with seasoned warriors/mages, forcing them to take additional steps to protect you when they could have been focusing on the war. Overall she’s being really selfish about this war… Riftan definitely needs to loosen the reigns a bit and actually give her the space to learn and train the way she actually wants; so that she can become confident in herself and become the badass that she can be.