Tbh “OK” is being nice, but yeah the whole virgin thing is actually because of the Japanese language they have different words/kanji for “virgin” so basically there is virginity♂ and virginity ♀ , I am unaware if there’s a gender neutral word for virginity other than saying person has been sexually active lol
Just wanted to share that tidbit because it comes up so often in Yaoi.

Both couples were ok. First story I don't even see this dude as a real deal masochist :) Young people trying to sync and navigating to find their way once the relationship was set. They both like each other so that's the start. What is 'losing your virginity' to a guy?' Ya gotta stick it in something or it doesn't count? omg. They both might end up vers later down the line. Who knows what the future would hold for both as they mature. This is a very immature beginning of a relationship so I didn't have any issues with it actually. (The first couple story really needs way more, for time and growth and how the relationship does set into the future but without that, it is what it is and it just ended kinda boring too but I like the spicy added with the collar!) Second couple story, hmm, total bore for me. Older dude just respecting the younger ig as he comes to terms with what he wants and how he wants to accept, be comfortable and move forward with their relationship.