Frrrr like let's normalize hating/disliking the shitty mls even if the story is getting good. Yes I know most have character development or chasing pase but at the end of the day, are they good person? Not just towards mc but everyone around them.
One example is jjk from jinx. Do I enjoy the story? Yes. Is he good looking? Yes of course. But his character and overall is average at best. He's still asshole even after the "awakening" or that wimpy little "chasing". But for some certain reasons he's so glazed up. Like is some sort of god or something. Which is lowering my likeness towards him.
If you read a lot of stories, you can absolutely find someone 1000000x better than him but most that literally worshipping him only read jinx and call themselves fudoFudanshi
Jaehyuk kicking the trash can was weird as hell but the crash out was valid???? Even if he’s been weird in the past, it doesn’t minimize what grams doing rn. Yes, he has trauma but he has to realize that from jaehyuks pov it looks like he is ashamed of their relationship. And garam doesn’t even know that his ex threatened to out them
No kicking trashcan or throwing the ring can never be valid not to mention Garam was literally reaching out for the trashcan. Being hurt and disappointed is valid but the actions you take out of anger very much reflects on your personality. Was Garam in the wrong? yes but was jae also in the wrong? yes too. It's so annoying people picking sides based on who's in the obvious rather than comprehending what lead to the fight. Jae also hid the things from Garam and he minimized those things saying "Oh I did it for you, what's the matter". That's not how it works. As a couple you need to be transparent w each other the same transparency y'all are expecting Garam to show.
For Garam, the hesitancy came from never having his bday celebrated, a shitty ex, his parents confrontation and a habit to minimize himself. For Jae, the anger came from being hurt that his bf didn't tell him abt his special day and the rejection of the proposal.
So many people saying the crashout is valid seems so funny and unreal to me. So if you caused your partner to be hurt, y'all would be okay with them kicking trashcans and throwing things because y'all were at majority fault ?
Im not gonna respond to the other stuff because its too much to but his ex threatened to put them at the bar and that’s what I was referring to, the guy who literally caused his traumas came back and threatened him with something related and anyone who’s dealt with situations like that knows how triggering an event like this would be to one’s mind
When did i say that kicking the trash can was valid? I said that the crash out was valid, which it was. And im literally not taking sides, the op was mostly against jaehyuks so i responded to that but i agree that theyre both in the wrong. Garam for his reaction to the rings and Jaehyuks for being agressive. No where was it said that him kicking the trash can was valid, i literally said that it wasnt. The crashout im referring to is him getting angry at garams reaction towards the rings, which he put thought and care into.

I cannot believe you guys are siding with elephant that man has hid literally everything from garam and is pissed abt garam doing the exact same thing and getting Agro (literally kicking things) because of the rings is a red flag no matter what, we are aware of garams trauma and his ex recently threatened to out them he could’ve tried to have a conversation with him knowing this?