Looking for sub/dom bl manga

I’ve been trying my hardest to find this manga for sooo so long and I just can’t seem to find it. I only remember some parts, like where this sub guy was looking for a dom through this app or website?? But was somewhat scared to go through with it. The sub also had this friend with a bunch of piercings and is a switch. MAYBEEE the dom had light colored hair? Dom was also super popular in this app/website. There is also this scene where they first meet in subs apartment. Sub honestly just wanted to get dom out of the apartment but Yk he still goes with the play. Dom figured out sub didn’t like soft play but more rough play instead. That’s all I remember… please and thank you to ANYONEEE who knows what the name is, I feel like I’m going insane ┗( T﹏T )┛