BUT MY COUNTERPOINT is that segasaki was hella wrong for not caring about yoh’s mental wellbeing when he was down in the dumps regarding his manga work and ong im obviously uke centered but he should get a lashing for that. Yes yes ik he equates to yoh not having work = not leaving him but obviously it feels so wrong cause aint that borderline psycho, all in all they both need therapy and communication 101 class lmao

I mean two things can be true at once like segasaki might not care about his image or whatever but yoh is trying to protect segasaki in his own way AND NONE OF THEM ARE WRONG (oh but the forgetting the birthday part is totally yoh’s fault lmao, cause i mean id assume its been a few years of cohabitation since they met at uni and now sega is already working so yeah.. how can you not remember your bf’s (or a housemate’s) birthdate