It was both doing the “emotional abuse”. Thats the part you dont want to see. They were BOTH( Ian has been emotionally abusive too ) in a very complicated relationship. Ian was willingly in it. So was TJ.
Can u understand why they were going in circles? What is your understanding about that? You believe TJ manipulated Ian?
Also what does it have to do with straight women? The misogyny wasnt a surprise anyways. You dont mind the hate when its done to a woman.
I have never seen this manhwa as just two men. Or that it was okay cause they are men. Thats something you are projecting.
They were both yearning,for years at that. Which resulted in them being toxic to eachother. Eachother as both. Ian wasnt his victim, damn it.
So they’re both abusive. That makes it better all of a sudden? We should celebrate they’re back together and will continuously perpetuate the toxic cycle they tried so hard to break. Moral of the story is it’s okay to stay in toxic relationships yall. Majority of yaoi consumers are straight women because yall are the target audience. Gay people have been begging yall to not fetishize same sex relationships in this manner. Obviously I don’t mean all straight women but there’s a concerning growing amount that continue to fetishize us and think all gay relationships are just about abuse rape manipulation etc.
Well if there is room for improvement and communication, it can get better.. plus the fact that they love eachother. Moral of story, sometimes love needs time and for people to be more mature, more forgiving and accepting. Their love is their home, they will be lost if they arent together.
I didnt even wanna comment on your fetishizing comment. If you think women are your enemies, you are wrong.
Its not about you. Bls arent representing your life or your struggles. Its fiction. Mature content is mature content. Women who read it arent inferior to the other gender who reads it. You believe men dont sexualize you? Never seen a complain about that. When it has always been more concerning and dangerous. Women can enjoy such mature content in their own way, why do they need to justify it?
There is a difference between a fetish and a woman enjoying her mature bls. The majority being women says that its something they enjoy. You want the why? I dont know.
You think straight relationships or women dont deal with abuse, rape or manipulation? Or being sexualized?
Who even thinks all gay relationships are not healthy because there are angsty bls ? I have only ever cared for my dear characters tho…..i assure you i dont care what you do with your life or body.
It come with egg roll
My babies are finally happy and together, they wont have to hide anymore.
I want to leave this alone because this manhwa should not be taken that seriously and it’s not worth getting upset about this much. But I’m telling you this from a place of concern, I think you really need to get help and/or go outside. I just scrolled through the comments and you’ve been schizo posting the entire day not able to understand valid criticism over a piece of media and just forcing your opinion on others who don’t agree with authors loving to reuse the plot of abusive cycles. Mutual abuse sounds more like he started whooping his ass back. Sometimes love needs time? Sometimes love needs to stop. You getting this defensive over a manhwa created by an author who literally wishes death upon and doxxes people by sending her deranged fans after them because they read illegally is very concerning. People are allowed to be fed up of authors recycling and reusing the same plot points and you’re just encouraging them to do so by being this obsessed. Please try to detach yourself from the phone screen and these fictional characters, it is simply not worth doing all of what you are doing atm in this comment section that should not be taken seriously.
The entire day has been a couple of hours for you? Also i see you have been waiting for my comments, how kind of you.
You are here blaming “straight women” and how abuse is abuse if you say so. I have to see it like you do and all i say is arguing back. I cant even say something because im forcing my opinion. See it from my point of view, it all started when i asked someone what was abusive, all i got was rude replies and got blocked. You can go find it if you want for all i care. Its not that serious anyways
You should take your own advice lol
Girl you are reading a comic based on gangster plot why do you think this will be all rainbow and sunshine go read our sunny days .you tryna act all righteous lecturing people who are simply enjoying toxic old men yaoi smh .
I don’t even go here anymore but a lot of straight women trying to say that there wasn’t any abuse between those two are bird brained. You’re not an ally for simply reading about two boys kissing. Seeing such emotional manipulation and having the gall to say “oh actually no that’s not the case!” Just because it’s a man doing it to another man doesn’t mean it’s not abuse. I know it’s just a manhwa, not even a good one by the looks of what’s happening rn, but abuse is still a very much a reality for many out there and it shows itself in hundreds of ways.