I don’t think that’s the issue though. It might’ve been the trigger for Garam to put on the breaks but even when Jaehyuk offered to keep the relationship a secret, the consistent problem for Garam is Jaehyuk’s sacrificial attitude. I mean it’s definitely an issue NOW that he pulled this ultimatum but I don’t think it’s crazy to say that’s not their biggest problem
Seriously though, memories stick with you. When I came out as liking women to my grandma, by accident mind you, she literally screamed in my face and pulled me to the ground by my hair to yell at me more. From then on, I couldn't even go to family gatherings without it ending in a heated argument. I was 15 or 16 at the time, and there was a Pride brand called fckh8 that sold t-shirts with pride slogans. I wanted to buy some of their shirts, but you can only buy on that website with a credit card. I was underage at the time, so I had the money in cash and just needed my grandma to check out with her card. Call me stupid at the time, but I really wasn't thinking about homophobia or anything when I showed her the checkout page. It was a horrifying experience, but you know what, I did manage to get the shirts and decided to wear them constantly out of pure pettiness haha
You guys pmo you act like it's crazy to be scared to be openly gay let alone KOREA This guy is asking garam to out himself and saying it won't be a big deal as if he wasn't disgustingly homophobic at the start of the story. I get you're mad over your little yaoi misunderstanding and i do agree that they need to have a serious talk with each other but if you actually think garam is in the wrong here I'm willing to bet you've never had to come out in a queerphobic environment