why does everyone think garam doesnt communicate when he literally said everything so clearly to jaehyuk he couldnt have communicated what he needed to say better. attempting to out garam and then disregarding his feelings when he KNOWS what garam went through (he isn't clueless like some comments seem to suggest- he knows everything about sehan?? he knows he isnt close to his family??) and then says to his face that he needs to get over it. telling garam to come home when he read the note is another thing- garam set a boundary and he was already ready to cross it lol??? this guy was knocking shit over and yelling at garam, with a past of being homophobic towards garam, and he doesnt think at all that MAYBE, JUST MAYBE the space is needed. all garam asked for was space! and jaehyuk uses a common manipulative tactic- if you dont come home it's over! if you arent ok with me outing you then we should break up! like lets really dissect why hes setting this ultimatum that because he doesnt WANT garam to say "yeah youre right we should break up!" he chased after him like 848384 chapters ago (while crossing his boundaries mind u) it isnt like he wants garam to leave him for real. so why is he saying this? because he doesnt value garams feelings, he puts himself above others. he said that to hurt garam, and there is no and ifs or buts about it. the reason why there is no communicating is because jaehyuk isn't LISTENING. HE DOESN'T CARE. its not because garam doesnt know what to say, its because jaehyuk NEVER fucking cared about what ANYONE thinks, much like he's stated so many times. lol.
why does everyone think garam doesnt communicate when he literally said everything so clearly to jaehyuk he couldnt have communicated what he needed to say better. attempting to out garam and then disregarding his feelings when he KNOWS what garam went through (he isn't clueless like some comments seem to suggest- he knows everything about sehan?? he knows he isnt close to his family??) and then says to his face that he needs to get over it. telling garam to come home when he read the note is another thing- garam set a boundary and he was already ready to cross it lol??? this guy was knocking shit over and yelling at garam, with a past of being homophobic towards garam, and he doesnt think at all that MAYBE, JUST MAYBE the space is needed. all garam asked for was space! and jaehyuk uses a common manipulative tactic- if you dont come home it's over! if you arent ok with me outing you then we should break up! like lets really dissect why hes setting this ultimatum that because he doesnt WANT garam to say "yeah youre right we should break up!" he chased after him like 848384 chapters ago (while crossing his boundaries mind u) it isnt like he wants garam to leave him for real. so why is he saying this? because he doesnt value garams feelings, he puts himself above others. he said that to hurt garam, and there is no and ifs or buts about it. the reason why there is no communicating is because jaehyuk isn't LISTENING. HE DOESN'T CARE. its not because garam doesnt know what to say, its because jaehyuk NEVER fucking cared about what ANYONE thinks, much like he's stated so many times. lol.