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i don't think either of them are making good decisions! that's very clear for anyone to see obvs. garam isn't perfect- as another commenter eloquently put it, garam sees jaehyuk being out and proud as a gay man as being something he will regret sooner or later. jaehyuk doesn't like it when garam speaks for his actions and doesn't WANT garam to take responsibility for them either, as he often does. this is completely valid. however...
genuinely what has jaehyuk done to make garam feel better about this like actually. because garam is also right about one thing: jaehyuk is too careless. constantly dismissing garam's concerns about homophobia and not taking him seriously would only make him feel more justified to do so?? he's also completely right that jaehyuk was only violently homophobic a couple months ago too, so jaehyuk spewing a bunch of bs about how no one actually cares if guys are close is something jaehyuk KNOWS is wrong. the ultimatum ONLY communicated to garam that jaehyuk either wanted the BOTH OF THEM to be out and proud and garam can kick rocks if he wants to stay closeted. even if in his heart of hearts he wouldn't reaaaaally do that trust me guys !! he hasn't communicated otherwise. he holds the things he does for garam against him even though garam never asked for it. i saw a lot of people saying he should be grateful to live in that apartment with jaehyuk- did we forget he lied to him about the apartment? like asked him to move in right after garam was crying about his mom having cancer? readers commenting that jaehyuk is too stupid to manipulate garam are just plain wrong!! lying to garams face multiple times is a manipulation tactic! please! garam is right to be angry that jaehyuk nearly outed the both of them? he didn't even talk to garam about it first. they didn't even resolve their argument both times before doing some bullshit! all jaehyuk does is escalate and escalate cuz he can't help it but to be petty and childish! mind you, his carelessness ALREADY outed garam MULTIPLE times!!!! garam has a say in the matter atp! like genuinely we are rehashing problems that they have already communicated about and it's just being dragged for no reason. atp just cut off jaehyuks card again
Glad to see someone sane here. Readers really tend to ignore Jh's wrongdoings and tend to make so many excuses for him because "he is doing what's best for both of them" or "he loves him or comes from love". Undermining your bf feelings, opinions and wants just because you want them is not doing what's best for them. Just because your partner loves you doesn't mean he is allowed to push your boundaries. It's just wrong. But....I'm here for the great shift.
i'm looking for bl manga/manhwa with a dom bottom/sub top dynamic! i feel like i've read a couple before but i can't seem to find any.. >_< any recs?
1.so, who got screwed
2.your so lovely
3.boiling frog(not sure abt this if it matches the dynamics properly but its similar)
thanks! i checked these out but im looking for things closer to bdsm dynamics / more strict!
perhaps then you shoul check out 'sugar trap' then it fits what you are looking for
invisible partner
my perfect boyfriend
I'm looking for some reccomendations of bl where the mc gets broken up with/dumped in the beginning by someone else, preferably full color manhwa but anythings fine
Third Ending
form of sympathy
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why is jaehyuks employer driving the bus all of a sudden?? surely there could have been a more relevant character for jaehyuk to open himself up to...? his friendgroup he was gonna out himself to? maybe even shinjoo ?? his parents ? u mean to tell me jaehyuks having relationship trouble and he goes to Random Gay From Bar #2?
He cut contact with Shinjoo after she disapproved of him and Garam in the restaurant date chapter, he cut his parents off because they didn't approve of his relationship and made such a scene that Garam cried, and he cut off his friend group ages ago in the story because when he went to them for advice, they didn't take him seriously and were pushing for him to cheat instead of fixing things with his partner. He doesn't have anyone to go to other than the photoshoot guy because he kicked everyone he could talk to out of his life already lol. It's literally what Garam was chewing him out for over the phone lol
Yeah. It still is shitty homophobic South Korea, so you'd naturally talk to a person you won't ever see again if you cut ties with them. An employer is much easier than friends or your parents - and his parents don't take him seriously either way...
LOL yeah i know it logically makes sense but its just so jarring since the story implied that jaehyuk had regularly seen him for advice when we've only seen that character for like. his introduction and thats it. it would have been nice to be able to see a relationship develop between him and the employer instead of it suddenly just being the case that this is something he does and has been doing which is a common thing that seems to happen in the story
whom else would he complain of his homowoes? a young, confused queer seeking out the ear of an older, lived queer is a tale as old as the rainbow.
Yeah lol he knows three gay people he could ask, one he just beat in court, and one of the other two doesn't want to talk to him. God, Garam is so annoying