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Glad to see someone sane here. Readers really tend to ignore Jh's wrongdoings and tend to make so many excuses for him because "he is doing what's best for both of them" or "he loves him or comes from love". Undermining your bf feelings, opinions and wants just because you want them is not doing what's best for them. Just because your partner loves you doesn't mean he is allowed to push your boundaries. It's just wrong. But....I'm here for the great shift.
i don't think either of them are making good decisions! that's very clear for anyone to see obvs. garam isn't perfect- as another commenter eloquently put it, garam sees jaehyuk being out and proud as a gay man as being something he will regret sooner or later. jaehyuk doesn't like it when garam speaks for his actions and doesn't WANT garam to take responsibility for them either, as he often does. this is completely valid. however...
genuinely what has jaehyuk done to make garam feel better about this like actually. because garam is also right about one thing: jaehyuk is too careless. constantly dismissing garam's concerns about homophobia and not taking him seriously would only make him feel more justified to do so?? he's also completely right that jaehyuk was only violently homophobic a couple months ago too, so jaehyuk spewing a bunch of bs about how no one actually cares if guys are close is something jaehyuk KNOWS is wrong. the ultimatum ONLY communicated to garam that jaehyuk either wanted the BOTH OF THEM to be out and proud and garam can kick rocks if he wants to stay closeted. even if in his heart of hearts he wouldn't reaaaaally do that trust me guys !! he hasn't communicated otherwise. he holds the things he does for garam against him even though garam never asked for it. i saw a lot of people saying he should be grateful to live in that apartment with jaehyuk- did we forget he lied to him about the apartment? like asked him to move in right after garam was crying about his mom having cancer? readers commenting that jaehyuk is too stupid to manipulate garam are just plain wrong!! lying to garams face multiple times is a manipulation tactic! please! garam is right to be angry that jaehyuk nearly outed the both of them? he didn't even talk to garam about it first. they didn't even resolve their argument both times before doing some bullshit! all jaehyuk does is escalate and escalate cuz he can't help it but to be petty and childish! mind you, his carelessness ALREADY outed garam MULTIPLE times!!!! garam has a say in the matter atp! like genuinely we are rehashing problems that they have already communicated about and it's just being dragged for no reason. atp just cut off jaehyuks card again