This drama started when Garam net Jae's mother and she convinced him that Hae will soon grow tired of him and dump him. He let her dictate the relationship, and stopped trusting Jae. Ironic how Garam's first bf, things went to shit because he denied the relationship and blamed Garam. Now things have gone to shit because his wants to acknowledge the relationship. Also the former homophonic assho.e wants to be Out, while the lifelong gay dude doesn't.
Ikr. Like, I understand his anxieties, but I thought he would have figured this out after everything that went down with the ex. But he's somehow gone in a circle and is back at the starting point but facing backwards
Garam's pissing me off because he's just passing off his own traumas and feelings onto Jaeyhuk. In reality, he's running away because he's scared of being put in that situation again. That everyone including Jaehyuk's family will blame him for his downfall by being "turned gay". He wants a relationship but he's also self-sabotaging himself from achieving his own happiness and he's hurting Jaehyuk in the process of it. The worst part is he doesn't even realize that he's protecting himself and thinks is decisions are righteous because he's doing it for Jaehyuk so communication isn't even possible.