I agree and I cannot stress this enough the ML was aware he's doing that to her and at the same time the lack of common sense that any person no matter how kind and understanding they are dont deserve to be treated like that. At least make it up to her in some way my guy. The MC also prob waited and expected ML to apologize or reward her in some way (??) and she prob thought she might be oveereacting if she talked to him about her feelings/complaints. (she was wrong to think that and I dont entirely blame her naivety) Anyways they both def not on the same page yet for some reconciliation to happen. Happy the FL got out of that situation not to mention the MIL made the situation too unbearable as well.
I get her but I don’t at the same time, she’s a bit hypocritical, how can she expect him to be truthful with his words when she wasn’t either.
This is not to say that I dont under her pain, or why she ended up that way but she kinda (partly) enabled a marriage like that, even if she did like a lot from the start she told him that she doesn’t mind him being busy, many many many many many times, that doesn’t excuse his cold behavior, he barely was a husband and barely ever took her seriously, but I’m wondering, what did she expect when she hadn’t said anything about what she’s been experiencing for 7 or 8 years atp, in a way she basically encouraged it even if it was in the name of love, she was conceived if that she was doing the right thing, she unfortunately didn’t prioritise herself in the same way and ended up in a horrible situation, and he never thought for a moment that the way she was living was odd, you would’ve thought she was a doll at home fr, cuz that’s not normal?
Nl they both need a serious conversation, perhaps even multiple. In this case, I would even look at the ml to blame because had never allowed for an opening for conversations to even occur. I really don’t get why he couldn’t spare a few hours w his wife if he can visit a club with a businessman that he easily dismissed because the whole uncomfortable situation, but that just means he has time to spare and people he can easily disregard and not cater to, so they’re not crucial to his plan, he could’ve easily done a few things with his wife instead. Ml’s incredibly frustrating, I was just waiting for the mc to bring up divorce.
I neither support them getting back together or them not getting back together icl.